Am I Too Short?

All you need is confidence man... and a whole bunch of guts. It doesn't matter if you are the tallest and the shortest guy in the crowd. Be smart and suave in every action you make. Women find it sexier than just height alone.

Could also be that you're making them ladies far too dang comfortable that they see you as a buddy instead, one they can be honest with and knowing they won't be called a biatch for it. You may be getting across as someone they can't see themselves romatically or sexually with.

I'm not short, but I understand when you "think" you have a flaw. When I was younger, I thought I was picking up women, because I was handsome. Now that I'm older, fatter, and bald, I know its how I carry myself!! I pick up more women now then I did when I was buff and 'better' looking!!!

Remember this guys, the purpose of evolution is to weed out poor genes, flaws. If height was that important, guys would be universally taller than women by a great margin. Put a another way, how many people are born with three legs... a very, very, small percentage (so rare you've never seen someone with three legs...how many short guys have you seen thousands...the world has millions), because having only two legs is important!!!

Women for the most part are insecure, so they're attracted to men who aren't insecure, alphas. The more "flaws" you have but don't outwardly affect your personalilty or confidence the more attractive you become...you just walk around like your the sh*t and women pick up on that!!!

---Biazza

That's a good point you raised there Biazza. Humans are continually evolving (our features are now finer) and yet, there are really a lot of short people still so there must still be use for the short height.

Anyway, hope thread starter has decided to focus more on things he CAN do something about.

I guess what matters most in picking up women is how you handle your game. Although, physical aspects matters a lot, but what if you don't have enough to boost your attraction to women. Take for example your height. It doesn't mean the game is over. And I think, if we are deprived of something, we should learn to accept it and work on the aspects that we have to make it work.

Even short guys get the girl, dude. Keep saying that to yourself and just go improve your game! I think a seminar is coming up, maybe you can join that!

Humans in nature are sophisticated. If there are flaws in our abilities or with our physique, our actions evolve in order to compensate with our flaws. I believe even short guys can get the girl they want, picking up is not just all about looks but also the skills for successfully pick up the girl that you want.

Oh I happened to mention this topic in passing to a girl friend (she's cool) and she raised an eyebrow at me and asked... "Well, are his fingers at least long? Is he endowed? Has he a tongue?"

Hahaha. Proof that there are more important things to life than height, am telling you.

ITS all about your FRAME OF MIND!

I know a guy who was around 5'4 and we would play sports together and when we would play, he looked more like a 7'4 because


1 he could jump REAL HIGH (tennis, soccer, basketball, any game with jumping involved he was pro)


2 he knew how to stand properly (go into an anatomy class / chiropractor class and learn more about this) and he knew (or maybe it was learn alpha behavior) how to stand in anatomical position.


3 and the most important in my point of view is work on keeping your head up (high and dont sink your head) and that way you will begin to notice (an immediate difference of how you look) and work your back and chest out so you give the illusion of a bigger and taller frame

Im 5'6" and i have no problem at all. Its not the height its the attitude. If you frame yourself right and hold to that frame you can be 4'5" and make it work.

wasnt james dean only like 5'7"...

Hey, I know exactly how you feel man. I'm 5'2 and have definitely been held back by my short height. I've found that it holds me back more so in the club and bar scene, than anywhere else. If I meet a girl through school, using the techniques that are out there, as long as she's not a)very superficial or b) a biatch, my short height hasn't stood in the way much. Hope this helps.

Who cares if you're short? Be a man! Be Alpha!

You do not doubt your success.You are there to attract them and wind up nailing them at the end of the night.Nobody's perfect.We all have imperfections.The main difference between the BETA and the ALPHA guy is that the ALPHA always thinks about his best qualities and goes there IN ORDER to ATTRACT.
No,let's say it better - ALPHA goes in a conversation so he can fark his targets.
The BETA one goes in conversation just to be nice,to meet friends,while secretly he wants to fark too.But he's BETA and he's hiding it.He is afraid to confess that he wants to fark the target.

You can be short and still be ALPHA.

Remember Al Pacino's Tony Montana in Scarface? That's the attitude. He was short, he was scarred, and yet he had the guts to fark his boss's wife.
Many of you think that it's not permitted even to think about nailing your boss's wife.
I don't give a Sh1t.Really.

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There is only one who is first,all the others are second.

Here's an option: Change your venue...even temporarily. I'm only 5'6" and grew up in California so I was always the shortest guy in the class. I tended to be wimpy too so it took a lot of game to get the girls, which I could at times, but not often enough. Becoming a doc really helped my confidence level and the cash attracts women too, but the biggest boost ever came when I went to Asia for a "mancation". The average height of women in the Philippines and in Thailand is about 4'11", so I was da MAN for the frist time in my life. Add the fact that Asian girls think their adorable noses are too tiny and that the rest of us have big attractive shnozes...and you will be da MAN too. Not only will you be totally overwhelmed by young gorgeous women 18-23 (I'm age 45+) until your c@ck falls off, but your ego will get HUGE. You'll come back home feeling like James Bond and FULL of game. This can be done on the cheap. If you want to get laid, go to Thailand since the entire country is P4P, but its cheap. The Philippines has many regular girls with most of the P4P is limited to Angeles City or specific known bars in the big cities. The rest of the country is open season for the most game-less westerner ever. What a place to practice! (especially for the short guy like me). The other nice thing is that 95% of the people in the Phils are fluent in English. Cebu and Davao are the best cities to go to. Avoid Manila. I can't tell you how many 18 year olds have hit on me in the Phils. NO ONE ever hits on me in the USA. You can even flirt and get to know girls, and arrange dates before you go, at various websites specifically intended to introduce you to Asian girls. Its worth the trip and you'll want to go back...often. Dress to impress, get your game on and book a flight.

As a MS1 (in a couple of months) I find it depressing that a doctor still has trouble getting babes.

Oh and regarding yoru height/nose etc. Has nothing to do with that in the PI and THailand. Anyone with the right country of origin has instant value. Hell, my friends brother with down syndrome had girls hitting on him <--- true story

I think ya'll need to stretch! lol

I think you're missing a semi-hidden point: I'm almost 50, not Brad Pitt, short, and am addicted to dating HB8-HB10s age 18-23.....and I like having several at once that treat me like I'm the last guy on the planet. Doc or not, Asia is a great place to build confidence and your game on girls like this...especially for short guys...not to mention that it's the perfect cure for "oneitis" that provides long-term immunity as well. You end up bringing all this home with you to the States and it lasts quite awhile. I'm sorry, but if you're a doc, not short, under age 40 and decent looking, you'll never be able to relate to any of this.