PROBLEM WITH AFC's / BE A FKING MAN !!!

You know...lets face it...MOST MEN of today disgust me... I mean look at it... what have we become!? I just saw a TV Show where there is some guy helping girls...and IMO 8-9's FIND AND PICKUP GUYS!!!! He coaches them because THEY...not the MAN is taking the initiative! Has it really come to this where guys are so pathetic where WOMEN have to hit on MEN to get them or where they are the one that have to take the initiative for SIMPLE THINGS in a relationship!!!!?? Look at the mainstream TV shows...what do you have? Most have a over weight guy or a guy that is insecure with an attractive girl who are constantly DLV'ing themselves and the woman is the breadwinner. If this is not the case the guy is usually over possessive and almost stalkish. IMO the problem with most guys is that since around the feminist movement guys have been trained and programmed through what they have heard from females, from their mothers, and from the media of what a women wants. The problem is this is usually very incorrect information. We all know that girls say that all they want is a sensitive guy and one that understands, yet when we become this guy we get treated like Sh1t and not like a man anymore...more like a significant other. IMO girls want a MAN. They want a Breadwinner, a Provider, a Confident, Non-needy, Control of his emotions, Protector, alpha male!! This is what IMO I have found that every girl wants. It is in there genes to look for men with these characteristics. It all goes back to Mystery's talk about the "Caveman" theory and hardwired genetic traits to look for these things for a women to S & R. "Survive and Replicate". Now I have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with the feminist movement and believe that anything pretty much a guy can do a girl can do as well....I have 2 sisters with Master's Degree's to prove that, but the problem I have with it is I think it really has confused guys about what females want.
I mean come on...look at the roles today...a little different...no wonder why there are shows like Sex and the City and more girls are cheating on their afc husbands/partners. Divorce rate is at an all time high...I wonder why? Bottom line is FEMALES WANT A MAN !! I have ran this by TONS of females vaguely describing my beliefs of whats wrong with the dating scene and "MOST GUYS", making fun of them and showing that I am NOT like the flocking masses, and basically just saying that guys are not taking responsibility in the relationship and are not being MEN and bottom line that's what a women wants and there a few guys out there like that IMO. This is field tested decently, if I run into a lesbian or bi-sexual I tell them a gambit that basically says lesbians or bi-sexual females I have found are usually upset or do not like guys because they are more alpha and dominant females. They usually agree with this and it makes them happy to think that they are better and stronger than other females. I then go on to say that their problem that it is hard for them to find a guy is the simple fact..MOST guys are not MEN...most guys do NOT take CONTROL, do NOT take initiative, and simply do NOT play their natural role in a relationship...even though there is NOTHING wrong with a female having alpha characteristics it is just harder for them to find a DOMINANT partner because most guys are not that dominant and that is usually why alpha females are usually not happy in relationships. I then go on to say that IMO there is NOTHING MORE that an Alpha female wants is a man to take charge, grab the back of their hair, slam them against the wall, and take control...be the MAN. *NOTE* This is just personal experience but EVERY SINGLE TIME they have FULLY AGREED with me that that was their problem. There are usually TONS and I mean TONS of ioi's! Licking Lips, Hair Flips, sticking the chest out, dilation of the pupils you name it ! Several time I have gotten laid pretty much RIGHT after me making that statement. They have told me that that is exactly what they want, and since you already have told them through that gambit that that is what YOU BELIEVE and that you are NOT LIKE THE AFC's and basically told them that you feel sorry for them, they then consider YOU to be the one that they are looking for. I don't know how many times, reguardless of kisses,sex, or anything that I have told a girl this gambit to only 2-3 months later talk to them and have them tell me. "I REALLY WISH I COULD FIND A REAL MAN...I WISH I COULD FIND SOMEBODY LIKE YOU" or "I WISH I COULD FIND SOMEONE THAT BELIEVE THE WAY YOU DO"
You see once you point it out to them they start to go on dates with AFC's and notice how the AFC's cannot make any decision and are uncomfortable and insecure and it separates you from the pack.
Note that I usually do this gambit during the attraction stage and usually end the gambit with this..."the problem I have is NOT finding a girl...the only problem I have is finding one that is attractive, smart, AND has a good personality, not some hot blonde bimbo that you can barely talk to. It usually goes good for a couple dates and then I get bored and move on..........pause... .....You DO have a good personality and like to have fun don't you!?" which is qualification.

They usually say "of course !!!" and then I just slightly smile and say in disbelief "Yea we'll see" ..this is great IMO because you state that you DO NOT have problems finding girls, which is pre-selection, you also hinted that the girls are HOT BLONDE BIMBO's, which IMO is GREAT because ALL GIRLS HATE THIS GIRL !!! even the dumb blonde bimbo's hate this girl lol, BUT that is NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU...you want all of that PLUS on that actually has a personality.... By doing this I have displayed pre-selection, pre-selection of HOT GIRLS that most guys would drool over, but I am not happy with that and usually get BORED because they have no personality. Girls will almost ALWAYS immediately HATE on this type of girl, which cracks me up because they feel so challenged because they know they were hot and stereotypically are what most men would love to have, but see that you are not like most guys and require more. They then, if they are into you which they usually will be, WILL MAKE IT A POINT to be overly fun and overdo their personality. It's actually usually sad and appears try hard, but wait...this isn't a problem...this is a good thing In like sin brotha's
Overall this shift in mentality that I am a MAN and that's what I am going to be in a relationship bottom line has not only helped me create what I want to be, but what women want as well.

Hope this helps some of you guys. Feedback is appreciated and I am always open to idea's.
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JonJeremy

Wow tell us how you really feel!!??! Lmao

your right which is why this idea of game works. It's seperating yourself from the rest of the pack and being that guy that every women wants. This is not an easy task and takes reworking your brain and thoughts.

Good post.



Sorry for the typos... On the iPhone

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yep tcomea2 i agree with him wholeheartedly. most men are not men. so effing simple but true. find a bloke out there and he is a wet blanket in one way or another. the guys who get the girls are often so metero that they can be classed as bitches and operate as highly feminine males. like T2 arnie is the T800 and the man and the T1000 is the blurry malleable bitch man

us as real men keep persisting. keep trying. keep doing the right thing so the p*ssy can cum... we will go to any lengths to lovingly keep that HB p*ssy alive and then help her get to ecstacy. these metero blokes are more concerned about themselves

jude law as gigolo joe in AI is brilliant.... he is the ultimate experience for women and is an AI sex toy. he develops contempt for mortal men as they do not LOVE WOMEN.

i think many men are latently gay but do not have the guts to come out and be gay. i at least respect gay men as some of them are MEN in their own right and some poofs have backed me up in fights when some afc metero sexual city bloke either cant fight or his gf wont let him

i dont look for fights and i have gone on about it tonight, but i can. and i will not back down if it means proecting a woman or child or someone who needs a MAN who can look after people in the community.

some of these new age lying seducers and cheating snitches make me sick. and money. they all have money and the amazon rainforest shows where all the money has gone and the guys shoving drinks and cocaine on girls and thinking it is pick up

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Easy now there are tons of city boys on this forum! Myself included. But by no means am i a AFC Metro.

Im stealing that term now and everythime i refer to someone as an AFC its not AFC Metro. Thanks Coyote!

Now off to label people with my new found term!

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it meterosexual as in not heterosexual and not homosexual. it is a term our media uses to describe the new age guys and they often use the term as though its nouveau or some good thing that men follow this trend. then again the women in the media are the ones telling women its ok to posess the male's balls and if he ever wants his balls back................ yeah right!

i am a city boy too but melbourne would be a large country town compared to one of your cities. i went to LA in 1993 and was beside myself at how much concrete there was and how little greenery

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come on coyote, not every metrosexual is an egocentristic bitch. Look at me for example, I am what they call metro, i farking shave everything, im always taking care of every single thing in my image. Im kinda narcissist but no there yet fully as i was years ago when i was ripped. yes im all that but im not a jerk that thinks everybody is below me(aside from sarging when i DO think that way).

I farking love myself and i want to look as good as posible. if i wouldnt i should just kill myself and be done with it. The PUA comunity is all about bettering yourself and many of todays PUAs are metro, just take a good look at many of them. As much as i love myself i cant quench my thirst for women. I LOVE women.Love their company, love to mess with them, i even love their shit tests and all that shit.

you have to accept whatever you are, being or trying to be something will get you labeled as FAKE immediately. Be genuine, love yourself(high selfesteem), be happy and run some sick smooth PU.