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    Default how do you respond or get more information?

    so I've been liking this girl for a while and recently the chase for her has been at a new low, we talk, we joke.. but nothing serious comes out of it. So she usually comes to my town to party every weekend, but THIS weekend, I asked her what she was up to.. her response was .. "got some hot datesssss"

    how am I supposed to respond?

    and how can I inquire more information about it? or demonstrate higher value to get her?

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    Default Re: how do you respond or get more information?

    Well, you could be in the friend zone, and that could also be a sh1t test.


    If you've been in contact with her for a long while, and nothing ever becomes of it.. It's because you haven't done anything.

    Since you haven't done anything, there's a good chance she's probably placed you in the Friend Zone.

    First. Remember that less is more, when texting women. If you text a girl frequently (not saying that you do - this is only a reminder), it is demonstrating lower value, because they will usually think you don't know many other women, and might not have much of a life. To them, it looks desperate. Don't text often, ALWAYS keep your text's shorter than hers, and never instantly reply to her texts.

    If I were you. I wouldn't respond to that message at all. Not responding to that message will give you a small edge of dhv, thus needed to help with her response for the next sentence below.


    I would wait a week or so, then text her out of the blue with something such as "Hey, let's do ____ on Saturday ".


    Unless I'm in an established relationship, I almost never begin asking someone when they're free, or what they're up to. I mean, what should I care? I'm an alpha male, and I want to do this with you.

    AFTER you say "Hey, let's do ____ on Saturday ", and they reply with "errm that won't really work that day", THEN you can suggest other days. Usually women will reply with an answer along the lines of "errm that won't really work that day. How about Tuesday? " OR something along the lines of "Okay ".

    Quote Originally Posted by penguin View Post
    but nothing serious comes out of it.
    ALWAYS REMEMBER. YOU have to make it happen. It's rare that something magically happens.

    I'm not trying to bash you or anything man. Only trying to help a brother out
    Last edited by OOKĖ; 02-24-2012 at 11:38 PM. Reason: Additional Information :)

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    Default Re: how do you respond or get more information?

    details about this to be more specific...

    I've known her for about 2 months, seen her at clubs, never bought her a drink or anything, drove her to clubs before where we were walking arm-in-arm, first month, she used to message me randomly to see how I'm doing, nowadays, I've messaged her random messages like "good morning" and open ended stuff and it usually goes for for 3 messages before i tell her im busy.

    I've tried to see her outside of the clubs and get her alone, but she's been busy with church stuff, friends stuff and family since she's only back in town for 2 days every week...

    so maybe she IS throwing me a Sh1t Test? and I'm thinking maybe I should set something like a week in advanced to secure a date? or is that AFC?

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    Default Re: how do you respond or get more information?

    Quote Originally Posted by penguin View Post
    details about this to be more specific...

    I've known her for about 2 months, seen her at clubs, never bought her a drink or anything, drove her to clubs before where we were walking arm-in-arm, first month, she used to message me randomly to see how I'm doing, nowadays, I've messaged her random messages like "good morning" and open ended stuff and it usually goes for for 3 messages before i tell her im busy.

    I've tried to see her outside of the clubs and get her alone, but she's been busy with church stuff, friends stuff and family since she's only back in town for 2 days every week...

    so maybe she IS throwing me a Sh1t Test? and I'm thinking maybe I should set something like a week in advanced to secure a date? or is that AFC?
    If you've consistently tried to set up dates in the two months you've known her and she still hasn't made meeting up with you a priority, I'd move on.

    The question is though have you tried making a move on this girl? Meaning does she just think you want to hang-out platonically or does she know that you want more? And if she had told me that she had hot dates setup this weekend while she was in town I would have responded with "Those guys can wait. I'm gonna take you out on a hot date this weekend instead." Either she'd go along with it, or reveal to you that she's not interested by not going along with it.


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