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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    I think your physique will play a part too if your some guido juicehead then you might be sucsessful, but if you are the skinny kid idk if the gym is your best bet she probably wont appreciate being approached by some skinny kid if everyone else around her is guido juicehead because gym is the place where they usually congregate and you dont want to go up against this type of competition.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    okay BUT, most girls are attracted to a well proportioned male who is in good shape.. there are very few that are attracted to the massive abused steroid look.

    So even if you're skinny, you can have muscle to make you in good athletic shape and be attractive to girls compared to those who don't do anything.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    I do like the idea of leaving at the same time as she is and talking to her a bit. I would try to find out when the girl goes to the gym and ask her if she needs a workout buddy. After the gym you can do cardio at your place

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Well, yes I am woman and was browsing this forum... I had to post in this thread since I work out quite often.

    Someone pointed out that women don't feel sexy while working out, but I have to disagree! While I don't feel as sexy as when I'm dressed up for a night out, when a guy approaches me at the gym I think "Hey, he thinks I'm hot while covered in sweat and wearing running shoes, that's a good thing"...

    I've had guys come up and talk to me while I was working out. Most of the time they'd say something like "I've seen you here before and noticed you lift heavy/work quite hard/are here a few times a week/etc." They're all good openers. Eventually, after a few talks at the gym he got my phone number. It's not creepy. I'm not sure I'd like having some guy say 'I noticed you weren't doing this exercice right and blablabla'. It would probably annoy me

    You could also ask her if she's done using the machine, how many sets she has left, provided she's lifting weights and you also need to use it.

    I think the gym is a great place to meet people, but I agree it could be weird if you see her there a few times a week afterwards, if the 'pick up' or even the date didn't go so well.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Maeva, good post. It's great having some actual female opinions thrown in!

    My 2cents.. first of all let me say that I have simply not done may approaches at my gym. Which is something that I should really work on. I just wanted to comment as well on the various comments that "girls are not feeling sexy... don't want to be bothered, etc" because I somewhat disagree. Sure, there are girls that are looking to be left alone... but I feel there are some that actually ARE hoping to meet a guy.

    Why? Well at my gym there are 6 floors, with the top floor being the weight room (which also has some cardio equipment along the sides). There are 2 other cardio floors, as well as a SPECIFIC "ladies gym" area where men are not allowed. YET I consistently see some of the best looking girls up on the top floor in the weight room area.. not always lifting, but using the treadmills, walking around etc.

    The weight room is filled with guys... why would they go up there if they were so intent on being left alone? Plus I see many girls really done up in their workout gear (skin tight pants etc) that are looking pretty good... I have a feeling they think they ARE looking pretty sexy and are up there to get the guys to notice (or just for their own ego boost..). I've also had a girl or two stare at me and seem to be following me around a time or two, which I was actually kind of creeped out myself because I wasn't interested.

    So I guess just keep your eye out.. I feel its pretty noticeable when a girl is looking for attention, even in a gym.

    Rando

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    There are so many ways to approach a girl at the gym.
    Personally I like asking them how many sets they are on, or honestly just any random opener it doesn't really matter. Word of advice. DON'T go up to them and be like "Hey you are doing this exercise wrong, let me show you how bla bla bla" honestly I see tons of meat heads doing this and it just pisses the girl off. One of my openers at the gym is I see a girl stretching, or on the ab mat and I say "gosh you are flexible, how'd you get like that" and then I talk about how I am trying to get more flexible for fighting (dhv) and we talk some more then N close from there.
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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Hey boss, this is your best bet and it works any place and any time.
    The best way to get anything started with any woman is to never ask any direct questions about her period. Instead give humorous statements that are questions but not really. For example I toss out small humorous statements that show I both am only having fun, and that I am not concerned about her answer. Here's a few:

    -Hey, quit working out so much, what do you think this is a gym or something?
    -Hey quit being so sweaty!
    -Hey quit looking so tired!
    -Hey are you trying to out do me or something?
    -Hey nice workout you should get a gym membership or something.
    -Hey quit hogging the mirror! Sharing is caring!

    I also give high fives and say things like, hey way to hussle! No pain no gain! Good workout, good workout. That's right show those muscles whos boss!

    I call these flat out humor statements which says things about yourself that your fun, not needy, and just want to pick on her. Her reactions will clue you in on if she's single, or interested, which then you could move on into more conversations as you see fit. But I find these ways are an easy and non intruding way to start talking and make them laugh.

    They will also feel like your fun and they kinda know you already. Also when you say them your not really looking at her, it's all in the character as well. Add some tease in your voice when you say them so they know that's what your doing, and have a sly smirk on your face, 9/10 they will joke back, and say things like I know I can't help it! In that case you could respond, yes you can you are your own best friend!

    I think if you set the initial verbiage spoken to her this way it will be way less pressure on her when you speak to her again as this time she will be waiting to laugh again. What I do is I will grab obvious situations that are probly on her mind like her hair being messy and I point it out and tell her to stop doing it like it's her fault.

    I say to the girls at the counter, "Hey quit being so cool! There can only be one of us!" Then as I am leaving I say, "Hey! Keep being cool don't stop now! What is this?" It's cool because I just switch it around and go against what I said before and it can be real funny to them.

    What it does is makes your Approach Anxiety much lower because your not trying to get her into a logical conversation, and at the same time it makes her think huh who is this guy lol! And your in her mind.

    Hope this helps!

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Why Not Get Her To Approach You?

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...ally-here.html

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    "how long do you think it would take me to look like arnold shvarcinaiger in that movie SomeMovie"

    then you can ask what she thinks on steroids, nutrition and suppliments. you can also talk about the movie. throw some HV stories. and move to qual.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Walk over, tell her she's doing her exercise wrong and then show her how to do it whilst grunting like a disabled wilderbeast

    KIDDING DONT DO THAT! I see it far to often at my gym haha, it's so awkward.

    Actually a good approach is to make fun of some one that is grunting loudly, you don't have to say anything at fist just catch a girls eye and smile, she'll know what you're both laughing at.


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