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    Default How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Hey
    Theres a real cutie in my gym and im not really sure how to approach her with out doing any creepy like "oh hey i noticed your not doing this exercise right let me show you how"

    So if you guys could help me out that would be much appreciated
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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    I just keep it simple and usually open with "Hey I noticed you and wanted to meet you." Then I talk with her for a bit. After that I'll try to set up a date for later and that's usually when she'll say she's taken if she doesn't agree with the date.

    The more women I've hit on at the gym (like any environment) it's become more easy to approach because the Approach Anxiety lessens.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Im with Don, Simple is always a good bet. Letting her know your interested and then working on any type of meeting outside the gym is your goal. After the Intro its all down hill anyway.
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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    I play the gym like I play the bar, initially I try and make eye contact. Once i have eye contact I will try and keep it for as long as possible,give a smile and do another set.

    I will then try and target a point where she is in-between sets, do not approach her on the treadmill or anything that doesn't let her get away as she will feel trapped. Then simply talk to her and use the approach the others have advised you.

    I also benefit from the fact that I know the trainers at the gym as personal friends so I speak to them and show them Im known and not some random gym pervert.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Awesome thread and some good advice so far, I wouldn't mind see others add to this! It's about the only thing I have time for in the foreseeable future outside of work sadly enough because I'm soooo busy.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    honestly out of all situations I find this the most difficult to execute. Girls are sweaty and are there for a work out, not typically to get picked up. So they aren't really feeling to sexy.

    I really think the only like you can drop here was already stated "Hey I just really wanted to come over and meet you" .. and finish off with a question to guide the conversation.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    Personally I would not go for the "you're not doing this exercise right" opener. Nobody wants to be "that guy" telling everybody how to work out. I love to work out in my own way and if someone came up to me and told me I'm doing something wrong according to them, I would probably tell them to go f*ck themselves....or just push down on the weight on their last set and say "you're not doing this right"


    Also they gym is not the bar....being surrounded by people in a place where women don't usually get picked up might make her feel like a slut if she does agree to go out with you so she might just say no

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    I met a girl at the gym about a year ago. I saw her there about the same time every day so, on the third time seeing her in the week. I walked up to her and introduced myself. I said "since we hangout at the same place all the time that we might as well get to know each other." We talked for a few minutes and went on about or workout. Just as I was done and about to leave I made sure to say bye to her. She smiled and asked me for my name again. We shook hands and she didn't seem to want to let go of my hand so, number closing wasn't very difficult from there.

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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    If I were to approach a girl in the gym, I'd ask to share a machine with her every other set or ask her to spot me. Then, as the progression goes, I'd start with attraction. Which means witty banter for me.
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    Default Re: How would i approach a girl in the gym?

    the gym is such a unique situation, a difficult situation where a women probably doesn't like confrontation.

    If you see them at the gym regularly, try and time up an exit with them. And then talk to them on the way out/in. Especially if they see you there often you already have some face time (unless you where creeping on them hard).


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