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    situation1992 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Lately I am hesitant to get phone numbers

    So lately i have felt hesitant to ask for girls numbers because i feel that they are giving me their numbers because they feel sorry for me. how do i brush that thought off my mind?

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    Default Re: Phone numberrs

    That's AFC thinking right there brotha. If she gives you her number and texts you back/answers your calls its not cause she "felt sorry for you" shes showing interest. If she doesn't text you back or answer you calls delete the number and move on. Its sounds like you may have some insecurities you need to address and believe me we all do. Just keep working at it!
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Phone numberrs

    Well you wouldn't be having that thought if you were getting to day 2's with them. Just set up a date the first time you meet them, get the number as a 2nd thought just to confirm, so you dont show up if she's not going to be there.

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    Default Re: Lately I am hesitant to get phone numbers

    How are you asking for the numbers usually? Sometimes the way a Number Close is done is the source of anxiety. You have to have the frame of mind that you don't even care about the number really and approach that part as an afterthought. Do you get my meaning? I like to charm the target as much as possible and get her fully interested/curious and then give my excuse and begin to leave. Then turn around as I leave and ask for the number with something like "You know, you're interesting and I want your number" or something along those lines. This mind frame and approach to the number close wipes away such anxiety perfectly. She is already interested and you've been cool and collected without the climax fear of the number close at the end. Hope I helped.

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