I started going after this girl too strongly three months ago by advising her to attend events I was attending, etc. My persistance was done in a very non-sexual way and she basically responded by (worst of all) asking me to do a guy friend of hers a favor. This was when I ended all persistence (about a month ago) and the two or three more times I saw her I basically dropped one liners on how she was too selfish and too nerdy (she really is both).
After finding out about this forum last week and about all the dating advice out there, and after consuming the advice like a fat boy consumes candy, I saw her today and below is the 5 min conversation:
Me: Sit down on her table as she was reading something (think a lot of ppl around).
Girl: Looks up and tells me that the food container in front of me that I pushed aside was not garbage.
Me: (ignoring question) Tell me about something new in your life that would interest, or amuse me
Girl: Who do you think you are, and moves toward safe topic
Me: (cutting off) that does not amuse me
Girl: X is happening... and blah blah (30 sec of q&a on the topic follow)
Me: (cutting off again) what are you doing weekend
Me: (smiling) Boring and Expected. Anyway, where are you going to live this summer in (new) city
Girl: You know where I can find apartment (I'm from there)
Me: it depends on how much you can afford
Girl: price range
Me: Doable on the high side
Girl: so can you help me
Me: I said yes--with me
Girl: I'm not going to live with you
I say nothing, get my stuff, get up, dress, and start walking away.
Girl: C'mon.... OK: where, how much, blah blah blah.
Me: It doesn't matter anymore. Let me know if you are doing anything fun this weekend.
Then, I see her later in a small gathering (20 ppl). I get a drink, go behind her, grab a plastic coin and slightly touch her with it on her neck, from behind. She turns and gives me an extremely sexual smile and look. (I didn't even think this girl had a sexual side--think super ambitious type).
Me: This dick behind you. (And I take a celebratory break--forced by her beginning a conversation with some dick)
In the next fifteen minutes she gives me a few more smiles from far while she's in conversations with others about saving the world (or shit like that).
Basically, how do I go forward from here, given the existing baggage. The baggage is my past super-beta behavior that made her feel like I would do anything for her. (Although I never did anything for her, my offers to and my persistence to get close to her is even more pathetic)
Also this girl barely (if ever) goes out to bars and works 'til 9pm or later.