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    YoungBASEDGOD299 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help getting this girl...

    So I really need help getting this girl. I've known her since high school and we just do happened to go to college in the same city. Knowing that I thought of this as my only chance to try and get her to be my girlfriend. The first semester of college she invited me and my boys to a party and we hit it off and I ended up going back to her dorm and we had sex. Now I'm wondering if I should've not done that cause I'm not the type to be friends with benefits once I develop a liking to a girl. A couple months pass of us being fwb's and she treats me basically like her boyfriend but I'm not her boyfriend cause she's still talking to other guys, which doesnt sit right with me cause I'm an all or nothing type of guy. So after a couple of drunk late night calls to her and txts where I explained the feelings I had for her since high school tht were now amplified cause of the situation she decides it's better we just stay friends. Of course after tht I cut connection to her for a couple months me being an all or nothing type of dude and start talking to the girls but always having her in the back of my mind. When the second semester starts she begins talking to me suddenly wanting to hangout again and of course I'm more then down so this weekend we're goin to the club and for spring break we're suppose to chill and smoke even though I don't like to. This past weekend however I got drunk again and told her tht I eventually was going to get her to be mine, even though it sounds too forward and aggressive I meant it. I'm thinking it ha to mean something that she's giving me all these chances even when I'm drunk and trying to too hard but shes keeping her distance like she's observing me. Even though she flirts with me and sometimes I flirt with her and sometime I don't, but then when I express how I feel she goes back Ito her shell and pretends like she's not leading me on...

    Im holding on and playing this game cause I really want her like I can't describe but I'm starting to think maybe I should just give up and focus on other girls or stick it out cause trust me I don't want to give up... Basically I need to kno wht I can do to get this girl, I'm opened to any suggestions and opinions...

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    Default Re: Need help getting this girl...

    Hi Youngbased

    "I'm an all or nothing type of guy" - this is a really beta attitude and she'll feed off it. You're the prize, whether she realises it all not is her problem not yours and you need to act like that.

    "So after a couple of drunk late night calls to her and txts where I explained the feelings I had for her since high school" - Never a good idea. As a man you need to be masculine. It sounds strange, but expressing emotions like that is feminine and will eat away at your masculinity.

    My opinion is that you Push Pull her to your advantage and not hers. You're playing on her terms.

    You need to build your masculinity up with her a bit more. Stop telling her shit that she'll be yours etc. "Push" her away and "pull" her in. Don't respond to texts for hours to a few days. Chase other chicks without shame. Don't follow her to clubs. Don't smoke with her if you're not into that for goodness sake. Have other things to do when she calls etc. See her when you want to see her, not when she wants to see you.

    You're the prize and she should work for you.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: Need help getting this girl...

    Quote Originally Posted by YoungBASEDGOD299 View Post
    So I really need help getting this girl. I've known her since high school and we just do happened to go to college in the same city. Knowing that I thought of this as my only chance to try and get her to be my girlfriend. The first semester of college she invited me and my boys to a party and we hit it off and I ended up going back to her dorm and we had sex. Now I'm wondering if I should've not done that cause I'm not the type to be friends with benefits once I develop a liking to a girl. A couple months pass of us being fwb's and she treats me basically like her boyfriend but I'm not her boyfriend cause she's still talking to other guys, which doesnt sit right with me cause I'm an all or nothing type of guy. So after a couple of drunk late night calls to her and txts where I explained the feelings I had for her since high school tht were now amplified cause of the situation she decides it's better we just stay friends. Of course after tht I cut connection to her for a couple months me being an all or nothing type of dude and start talking to the girls but always having her in the back of my mind. When the second semester starts she begins talking to me suddenly wanting to hangout again and of course I'm more then down so this weekend we're goin to the club and for spring break we're suppose to chill and smoke even though I don't like to. This past weekend however I got drunk again and told her tht I eventually was going to get her to be mine, even though it sounds too forward and aggressive I meant it. I'm thinking it ha to mean something that she's giving me all these chances even when I'm drunk and trying to too hard but shes keeping her distance like she's observing me. Even though she flirts with me and sometimes I flirt with her and sometime I don't, but then when I express how I feel she goes back Ito her shell and pretends like she's not leading me on...

    Im holding on and playing this game cause I really want her like I can't describe but I'm starting to think maybe I should just give up and focus on other girls or stick it out cause trust me I don't want to give up... Basically I need to kno wht I can do to get this girl, I'm opened to any suggestions and opinions...
    Good for you. Saying that was bold (even with liquid courage. ) and at least you can say that she knows where you stand. My advice is that this chick doesn't seem interested or ready for a relationship and that you should keep her around as a friend or a friend with benefits while moving on and starting to see other chicks.

    Maybe when she sees you start getting serious with other chicks she'll want more, maybe not.


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