I'm trying to get into game here and I'm already overly frustrated with it, so I'm looking for some insight.
I want to try and keep it as brief as possible. I'm in my late 20s and I'm not used to, nor do I have much experience in the game. I was in a relationship from 18-27. The easiest way for me to pick up was from vacations, it's just too easy b/c theres a close to 0% chance of rejection. I've also had good luck online but only with HB6 and HB7s. As for me myself, I dress great, I'm in great shape, I have nice cars, jobs and apparently I'm above average looking (as i'm told), I'm not hideously ugly. I don't talk nor show any of that stuff off b/c I think it's normal fo anyone to have nice cars, good job, etc at my age especially...so for me, I really don't care about it.
I've been following some friends of mine in the past few weeks and we've been hitting a lot of spots to meet beautiful women, but nothing is working. It doesn't matter what openers we use where, no girl ever wants to talk. A lot give such attitude from the very beginning "get lost, you can go now, please leave". We've tried clubs, bars, lounges, yesterday we went to the St Patricks Parade and nothing seems to work. Every girl or set we approach, we get that bitchy fuck off attitude from literally all of them. We thought, ok it's a numbers game..maybe our numbers are a bit off. Yesterday, for example..we maybe hit 20 sets. Do you guys literally hit set after set after set, over 20 in a given day/night? Do we maybe have a bad gameplan and that's what needs adjusting? We just try to be natural, outgoing and fun and talk to anyone friendly...we try not to use canned material.
As I walk the streets of Toronto, I always see HB10s with the ugliest, fatest, out of fashion guys out there and I can't help but ask myself "how"??
At this point, I'm sick of wasting my time. I want to know from you guys, have you trialed and errored so much that you found the perfect formula to this? If so, can you share it? Can you offer suggestions on how I should proceed going forward to get those 9s/10s?
I sometimes blame the city due to the amount of snobish girls around here. All of the most outgoing and friendly girls I've been able to talk to in the past were always from Eastern and Western Canada...I believe the this is a known fact, that I live in a city surrounded by snobish stuck up girls, but there really nothing I can do...I live here and have to deal with it and make it work somehow.