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    jordan_5000 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Basic approach question?

    Ok so i was heading into class and i held the door open for this cute girl who gave me a smile. This doesnt normally happen to me, I find girls my age (almost 19, freshman at uni) tend to be impolite and just not care when peopke do this. There were plenty of open seats in class, should i have sat beside her and gave it a shot or is it seen as slightly creepy to follow a girl and sit down beside her just because she smiled at you? Thanks.

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    Default Re: Basic approach question?

    it's not creepy to sit down beside her and talk to her. It's all natural for a guy to approach girls. Do not allow dysfunctional and ego-limiting beliefs destroy your game!

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    Default Re: Basic approach question?

    Thank you. Do you have any good openers because aside from making jokes about the prof/class or talking about the weather (which is actually very unusual for this time of year so it's more interesting than it sounds) I don't have too much to talk about.

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    Default Re: Basic approach question?

    Creepy? No. Your best option? No.

    You have her in class for what, another two months? Play it cool. If you think she's hot enough, for you, let her see you be a gentleman to other women, as well. Let that marinade.

    Your approach should be before or after class. Just watch her a few times. She may be busy, but you only need a moment, seize it when it appears.

    When you don't rush in, but do make an effort, later, she will probably bring up your kind behavior. If she does, no more wondering what to talk about. Yes, you have high values, what about her? Even if she doens't the first date or when you initiate the propostition, she will tell her friends. This will help your cause.

    In a classroom situation, I would encourage toward the tortoise method. The window of opportunity is more like an open garage door. Success and failure will have longer-standing ramifications. You don't want to blow your chances with all the women, in the class. You want all of them to want you.

    I cannot fathom how so many guys have nothing to talk about. Even if you lived your life in Isolation, free of color, sound, and taste, you can always care about what she has to say.

    You all have beliefs, opinions, and areas of interest. You may not be the next Steve McQueen, but he's been dead for a long time and she probably won't know who he was, anyway.

    If a woman likes you, she will talk about anything. There are very few things that are too stupid. At this point, she will have more experience with the opposite gender, than you. Take comfort that most woman will steer the conversation, if necessary, if they like you.

    It's all about presentation.
    I have failed more than most men have tried.

    Every woman you pass up is a woman you will never have.

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    Default Re: Basic approach question?

    You should sit next to her, and stare at her with a shit eaten grin on your face. then when she looks at you weird say "why are you staring at me!?" Keep the grin and laugh a little bit. Do this without breaking eye contact and with a playful attitude. You will for sure get a little laugh. Then introduce yourself and say you are professor "so and so" and "class is actually called off today so come get some coffee (or whatever) with me" then follow with "oh thats right I'm not the professor... but you should still get some coffee with me after class. Delivery is key. no matter how much your hear is pounding act cool. Hand gesture while talking, keep eye contact.

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    Default Re: Basic approach question?

    Just sit with her next class or strike up a conversation as you all leave class if no seats are avaliable next to her. Talk normal, you don't need to 'pick her up' at this point, just let her get to know you and you her. At the end of class ask her if she wants to catch up as you enjoyed chatting to her. If you want to try be funny make fun of the lecturer or the class but be careful because she might really enjoy the class and lecturer so make it more self deprecating or ask her what SHE thinks of the lecturer/class and if she says something putting it down then add your own humour.

    Just say 'hi, my names ____ nice to meet you' then proceed with basic questions about what she's studying, where she's from. Data collection at this point. Once you have a date or hook up with her you can be stronger in your approach. Good luck.

    In my experience almost all women love chivalry so I always open doors, let women go first etc.


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