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    Unhappy What do I do with a girl from work

    Hey Guys,

    So there's this little shorty at my work (by shorty I mean short, 5'4"ish) who's been asking me to lunch and things, so of course I've gone along to lunch with her, she's also asked me out to some clubs and stuff but I haven't gone to any of them with her yet...

    Anyway, I asked her to come to dinner this Saturday at a sweet new mexican place not too far from where we both work. I've never actually been on a date with a girl before, but I can tell that she's pretty interested in me.

    I just wanted to get some advice on what to do on the date so that I can go back to her house and hopefully get in her pants haha

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    You either have to be insanely sexy and hot (and that doesn't necessarily mean anything) or you have to spit some instense game. It isn't necessarily easy to just go on one date, take her back to the crib and get it in.

    There are some girls who are like that, but a majority are too reserved to admit they want it (when more than likely she already thought about you in the bed... both men and women do it, it's natural)

    I wouldn't aim necessarily for that night, but I would make it a work up thing over a series of maybe 3 hang outs... However, if you want to open up the idea... you need to A) make sure you do not place yourself in the friend zone. By that, I mean make sure she understands you aren't just a "friend". B) Sexual Tension and innuendos. Throwing in sexual tension is key. I like to do this by asking girls what their pillow fighting skills are like. This adds the thought of me, her, and pillows (which incorporates beds) into the picture. I have heard it referred to as sexual inception. C) Make her desire you. Show confidence. Girls want to feel like women. I have been told so many times that I make girls feel like a woman. They say I am a "manly man". It's like a female fantasy to be overwhelmed by a "real man".

    Again it isn't real easy to just get her to let you in her pants. It takes time to develop that kind of skill. It has happened quite a few times for me, but it really depends on the reservations of the girl. You can affect and lower them a bit, but typically it isn't fullproof. By bringing up sexual conversations in a non-creepy way, it can help. Talk about some other couple at the restaurant and get into a convo about how they probably are newly wed or a new couple who are going to go back and probably bang for 15 minutes. (I use variations of this, but it helps bring up a fun conversation and it gets her mind thinking about sex). Again, it isn't fullproof.

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Awesome man, that sounds like some pretty solid advice I'll definitely give it a try.

    The main reason why I thought she might be keen for sex is just cos she'd asked me out to clubs and stuff and now lunches lol.

    Hey, one other thing btw, I was thinking of taking her to this rooftop cinema in the city, they play all sorts of old school movies and I think on the Saturday there's some thriller from the 70s on. I know that movies are generally a terrible idea but I figure, cos it's outdoors we might be able to talk a bit more and also the seats there are really like deckchairs, so possibility of lying with her and that? Dunno... like I said never been on a proper date before haha.

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    I stray away from movies on first dates. Save that for like a 3rd date. She clearly is interested in some degree. So just go on a date you can actually talk to her, not a movie (even though you may be able to, don't risk it.) You want interaction on first dates.

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Solid. Third date, that really puts things into perspective for me lol. I think I was possibly trying to cram too much into the first date hey... Still... Any recommendations of what to do when we finish dinner? I'll obviously pay for it, but other than that? Do u just stay around the restaurant? (it's actually a pretty laid back joint so I don't know if restaurant is the right word for it)?

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Yeah... Grab a drink or two.. Get a coffee. You can tell if the girl is yearning to go home or not. I tend to go for some coffee after. You can sit at a cafe for hours without needing to buy stuff as in a bar you typically need to keep buying beer or alcohol. But it all depends on the girl

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Killer. Thanks heaps for all the advice. One last thing though, if I may, I only asked her to go to this place today (Thursday). We're having work drinks tomorrow though and I think she may be staying around for one or two drinks but then she's gonna go to this Japanese place that's just opened up. Not too sure who she's going with but she said she made the booking do I'm assuming it's not someone who's asked her out. Anyway... The question I'm trying to ask is; how do I make sure she will come on Saturday?

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    You don't need to worry about her coming on Saturday firstly because that's beta as fuck and secondly it affects your confidence. Just keep playing the initial meeting in your head and get it into you that she is definitely coming. This will help you so much, never worry about flakes and no shows, it really affects your game on a subconscious level and will have you babbling like an AFC in no time.

    My advice here is that you should confirm just the time on Saturday morning via text, and give her nothing until then, be friendly and try to show intent as soon as possible but for the most part stay sexual and remain distant, right now until the date, I sense that you might not have the skill to game her right up until game day so just avoid fucking your self up at this stage but @Mr8Hyde6 has given you all the tools you need right now to show intent, stay away from LJBF and date anxiety, all you need to do now is just be awesome and show those alpha traits and I think you will be good, remember though she is going to test you on this date! It will happen so just get practicing on over coming shit tests and sexual push pull and I think she will be cooking you breakfast in no time

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Haha awesome dude. This was my first thread on this forum and you guys have already boosted the shit out of my confidence. Keep an eye out for a field report after Saturday!

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    Default Re: What do I do with a girl from work

    Anytime I "ask" a girl on a date, it is never an actual asking. I tell them... I say something like... "(Name of place) + me + you = awesome time. Be there at 7"... What i am doing is a few things. I am showing confidence as I am not asking, I am telling. This shows you aren't afraid to take initiative. I am also giving her no option. All i am leaving room is for her to change the time if needed. If she is actually busy, and interested, she will get back to me with another time. I advise you just send a text like that. A lot of times, if it's for the next day, I will say something that day of the date like... "Meet me at the bar, I will be the guy standing next to the spanish guitar band playing spanish love songs with the suit and tie"... Why I do that is because it lightens the mood of being a "serious" date. Dates are nerve wrecking, for men and women, so doing that helps relieve that "serious" atmosphere and make it fun and playful. She will also help lower her guards


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