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    Default Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tables?

    Hello people!

    (I had some time to think this before posting it, and at the retrospective she is probably right (?) )



    Well, I am 21 and it seems I am always facing the same problem with women. They dont like honesty or people who say things as they are.

    In my general life I am pleasant and easy going but I love teasing people from time to time.

    In my love life I was and I still am single. Had some girls that approached me but I failed to realise their signals and missed my chances :/

    I usually either approach a girl or not at all. Prefer the distance of my pc screen thus came here. SO to the point!

    Today I was supposed to go with my buddy and meet some girls at the park to chill out and enjoy the sun, have the time to know them and know us and etc. Since weds we he had arranged a meeting with the one he fancies at a location and they agreed. But today they jut texted that they went to another park and we should go and join them. SO we did. At the park we texted them to come and meet us at the x spot. My friend who has a crush with one of them told me they will come and that he wont go and look for them. I shorta like the one but not sure how to act as I met her only once and she was drunk. Anyways we never met, my friend was all melodrama about how he wont trust girls again and such and I took it lightly as I am pretty much used to let downs from girls

    When I went home I fb them the bellow:

    We made the effort and came over at museum gardens instead of the original promised place. You should have made the effort to move your butts 20 meters were we were, just out of courtesy!

    No offence but your act proved my theory right. Girls are not yet women before they reach their 25th year. Which is in a way bad, because I would like to know u girls a bit better

    Maybe another time, or maybe not! Your call!

    I got a reply by the girl I shorta wanna know better saying that I was rude. After a while I replied at her and below is the convo:

    Me : I know beautiful, I had to be a bit rude. Promise me that u wont be rude to me again by neglecting me and then we are even

    Wanted to see you today and have the chance to know u a bit better, but from what I understood, u didnt. And thats ok

    If I sound pathetic above or rude, I dont mean too. I am an honest person I just dont get why u didnt move to were we where at!!
    U could probably role down the hill to be honest
    roll* XD


    Her: no u did not even have to be a little bit rude, you cannot possibly call me childish when u write such things.. i won't be rude to you, because i no longer want to talk to you. we were in the park first, makes sense that you would come where we were... and i never promised to meet you guys in the first place.. so PLEASE dont bitch about it like a little girl


    Me: I never told u u r acting childish. Quite the opposite. As I said above thats ok, I dont have much time to stay in this country anyway... Shame though, we could have been good friends if I wasnt so negative above. But a lesson is a lesson.
    in other words the ship went off the port
    good travels!


    her: No offence but your act proved my theory right. Girls are not yet women before they reach their 25th year.
    ..................


    Me: men are always boys
    so its ok to act as I act
    acted*



    her: ur acting like an asshole....

    me: didnt mean that in a bad way. to be honest I prefer girls than women and no I am not acting like an asshole. I am just telling what I believe. Sorry if it doesnt reside with your beliefs... But please lets stop this conversation here. I dont want to make you my enemy from a potential friend. and lets keep a distance for a while. When Im back from Italy, we can talk and find out who is wrong or right. I might as well be wrong and not able to see it .


    Just wondering how can I turn all this negativity in something good and make her come out with me for a coffee or something (if possible, or is it a lost cause?)

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    No you can't, leave it and move on to the next HB and never write anything like this again, It's beta as fuck and if you do this consistently enjoy your hand.

    What books have you read? Do you have a guru who suits or reflects your personality? You need to not give a fuck if they meet you or not, in my experience when and if I stand a girl up they chase me and push for another meet, it's all about your game at the beginning.

    But what you did above is just unacceptable if you want to have chicks eating out your hand, everyone fucks up man but steer clear of this kind of situation in future.

    Get books, get a guru, get good, get bitches

    That's the formula!

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    Quote Originally Posted by AstroBoy View Post
    No you can't, leave it and move on to the next HB and never write anything like this again, It's beta as fark and if you do this consistently enjoy your hand.

    What books have you read? Do you have a guru who suits or reflects your personality? You need to not give a fark if they meet you or not, in my experience when and if I stand a girl up they chase me and push for another meet, it's all about your game at the beginning.

    But what you did above is just unacceptable if you want to have chicks eating out your hand, everyone farks up man but steer clear of this kind of situation in future.

    Get books, get a guru, get good, get bitches

    That's the formula!

    ~Astro

    Its my first time here so any suggestions for the above things I need to get? :P


    Beta means beta male? Is that really bad? :O

    Also I continued on the convo sayin in a way sorry. I just dont like to have people criticizing me wrong tbh

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    Since you like honesty and saying things the way they are, you probably want to learn Direct Game. It's the type of game where you walk up to a girl and tell her you want to talk to her because she looks cute.

    Beta does mean beta male. In the picking order, women like the beta male worst, the jerk a little better and they love the alpha male. (here is a description of an alpha male).

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    No problems dude! Don't sweat it in no time at all you will be alpha as hell and this will all be a memory

    Yes firstly you need Neil Strauss: The game.
    This is a book and can be bought in almost any good book store, there are also online stores and e-books available. E-book is your fastest most discreet way of learning.

    I would suggest you look for a guru after reading "The game" My guru has always been John Sinn and his program "Sins of attraction" He just fits my personality so well and I see myself as being him when I read his material, I always ask before I make a move "What would Sinn do?" That gets me thinking like him and then BOOM! It all come's together. But I have read tonnes of material, Richard La ruina aka Gambler, The mystery method, Magic bullets, Love systems, the list is endless but never a bad read!

    The PUA lifestyle is awesome, and can be very rewarding for you but the one tip I would give you is to use what you already have, don't try and fit your self into the role of a guru or MPUA just see who suits you best and adapt their game into your lifestyle.

    I.e. Gamblers style just doesn't suit me, he does things that make me actually cringe and makes my blood run cold but he is a fucking excellent MPUA and gets results and pushes boundaries like never before but I can't play his game because he is nothing like me and I have no interest in being like him.

    John Sinn's game is so high energy and so brave and risky that it's like he isn't even doing anything unusual or taking any risks. This was just like me before I was a PUA, I am really high energy and love taking risks so this was a natural step into his persona and with lot's of adaption and changing his game into my own to make it fit me, I now get great results but I could be doing better so the learning continues It's all a big cycle dude.

    and yes "beta male" is the worst you could be. In short it means that your an average frustrated chump or AFC in pickup speak.

    Don't let this phase you, we all start off there unless we have natural game but no matter what PUA success is just a book read away!

    So get reading :P

    ~Astro
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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    Thanks for the description. To be honest I cant help myself becoming a beta :/ I am a good guy and have a tendency to be friendly with everyone and care for them. Especially women

    Anyway whats that game u r talking about?

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    You're welcome. The game I'm talking about is Direct Game. You can see what I'm talking about if you go to Youtube, type "Sahsa PUA" in the search bar and click "direct Number Close - infield approach by Sasha Daygame".

    The guru, Sasha PUA/Sasha Daygame, is a crazy guy that is really direct. He doesn't really follow traditional PUA rules in terms of appearance or body language but he does approach fearlessly and says what's on his mind. He's my favourite direct guru. There are others.

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    Default Re: Being real and getting nothing. Story of my life... How to turn the tab

    The game audiobook. Shall I try that or is it different from the book?


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