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    Default I am not sure you are taking me seriously. (1 view= 1 comment please)

    I posted earlier and I do not think it got much consideration. Let me prequel with this. I started reading "The Game" and studying PUA long before it was popular. A matter of fact I bumped into Mystery before anyone knew he was a genius. I despised this game because I thought it was wrong and unfair. For good reasons I changed my ways. Anyway, I am a decent PUA but some of you would take my to school and that is why I am reaching out. It is clear that some people on this forum do not posters seriously.

    I am a powerful member of an organization at a top university. Don't get your panties in a wad I do not think I am hott sh1t I know you guy can pull more puss so don't be defensive. Anyway, I met her when she was a new member and all scared.

    Anyway, now I am running for an officer position in the organization and it made me realize than ever I. want. her. We have talked in person several times but I took over FB and negged her. here is the convo...

    "Hey Angel, enjoyed talking with you tonight. I wanted to let you know at tomorrows meeting I will be nominated to run for President. I have worked hard over the years and I hope I can get your vote come the last meeting. By the way, I liked your outfit tonight it was sort of like what Katy Perry wears. Anyway see you tomorrow"

    might seem like a lame neg but i can tell she is purposely dressing like Katy perry. Here is the response.

    "Hey! I enjoyed talking to you as well. It was nice getting to know more people from the organization since I didn't get to go to DC. Thanks for my outfit compliment. Good luck with your presidency nomination. You got my vote!"

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    Default Re: I am not sure you are taking me seriously. (1 view= 1 comment please)

    Hey Atticous, I know this isn't what you want to hear but I figure you can take what you like and leave what you don't.

    It seems like you have one-itis with this girl, which simply isn't a healthy way to go about the scenario. What do you want from this girl? A relationship? If you're ego matches how you write I don't understand where your struggling. This is Direct Game. Here's how I would go about handling the two situations based on what you're looking for:

    Relationship: Text her, "Get coffee with me." (or lunch, ice cream whatever the fark you want) When she says okay meet up and Fluff for a bit until you know things need to get real. Perform some Kino routines/compliance testing to see where you're at. If all is good just say "I'm going to kiss you." and do it. Check your phone (have your friend text you wondering what you're doing or just have a text from earlier with the same message. i.e. what's up?) When she asks about your phone or even if she doesn't just say, "So-and-so was just wondering was I was up to. I was going to say just spending some time with my girlfriend. What do you think of that?" If at any time you know things aren't going well, accept it, turn it into a friend date, and on to the next one.

    Just for sex: Next time you see her go too far with a comment/compliment. "Hey, nice shirt." She responds blah blah. "Honest to God I want to see what's underneath." Say it straight faced, no bullsh1t. If she's into it I doubt you'll need any help from there. Once you break sexual tension it snowballs. She'll play along and you keep it going until the "joke" turns serious. I've done it plenty of times. If it doesn't, brush your shoulders off. She's just one girl.

    Hope that helps. Best of luck.
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    T1G3R is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I am not sure you are taking me seriously. (1 view= 1 comment please)

    I rely heavily on body language, so I still need a lot of practice around the whole facebook, email, etc thing, but in regards to what you wrote here are my two cents for what it's worth.

    First off coming straight out with anything defining your status usually sounds a bit needy, plus if she's in your club she already knew about the whole presidency thing etc so I probably wouldn't have brought it up. Then you asking for her vote directly is pretty much the equivalent of asking for her approval, especially when you added how hard you'd been working for it, and now you're looking for validation. I probably wouldn't have opened with what you want from her but more with what you could offer her if she voted for you, like if you vote for me maybe I'll let you sit next to me at meetings, but only on Wednesdays, I've already promised the other days to my cousins. Also knowing she was new and a little scared, you could've played on it a bit, like well I'm running for presidency and I'm totally overwhelmed by all the votes I'm getting, heck I don't even know if I want the position anymore, I mean imagine what it'll be like people asking me for favours all the time and wanting to sit next to me. I really hope you don't vote for me cause you'll probably turn into one of those people and I'll have to start hiding from you when I see you in the hallway

    Also if you knew she wants to look like Katy Perry you bringing that up was not negging, that was just a straight out compliment. You could have gone down the route of, hah, I liked your outfit, are you in love with Russell Brand or something cause you totally looked like his ex wife - I'd give it up girl, the dude's a freakshow, you don't want him!

    She gave you a vote cause she was being nice. Girls do that. There really wasn't anywhere else to go for her from what you gave her.

    Perhaps let go of emphasising on her. Also don't emphasis on yourself so much either, you have the club in common, you can make jokes about that and find common conversation ground there. Keep it fun and light. Make her feel comfortable in the club with your actions, use your status, but don't state it (that's just lame and is actually a sign of low confidence) and do make jokes about it.


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