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    Default number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    So I have been talking to this girl that works at a coffee shop. She seems pretty interested in me, giving me some ioi's. I get her number bc it seemed to go well and she wanted to chill and text her a day later and she texts back that she has a boyfriend. So wtf, do I even text her back to try to chill or is this done?

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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    Check out the "BF Destroyer". There are a few guides on here about it.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html

    Even if she ACTUALLY has a boyfriend, it's still possible to get her.


    If you don't mind. What were the dialogue of your conversations? Usually there are certain texts that are done about the wrong way, or are misinterpreted.

    The more detail we have, the more we can help brother
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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    Well she kinda opened to me, saying I looked like a celeb she likes. So after a few interactions, seemed like she wanted to chill so I number closed and she said to text her. I text her "Hey its (insert celeb name) aka (my real name). I just wanted to make sure you didnt give me a fake #"

    I am pretty new to picking up, so I am not sure if it was a bad text or what.

    She responds hey whats up I dont know why I am telling you this, but I have a boyfriend. I havnt responded to her yet, just seeing if its even a possibility to get her. I am wondering what my follow up text should be or if I should even follow up. I will check out those links above, thanks appreciate any input.

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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    Quote Originally Posted by grinder123 View Post
    Well she kinda opened to me, saying I looked like a celeb she likes. So after a few interactions, seemed like she wanted to chill so I number closed and she said to text her. I text her "Hey its (insert celeb name) aka (my real name). I just wanted to make sure you didnt give me a fake #"

    I am pretty new to picking up, so I am not sure if it was a bad text or what.

    She responds hey whats up I dont know why I am telling you this, but I have a boyfriend. I havnt responded to her yet, just seeing if its even a possibility to get her. I am wondering what my follow up text should be or if I should even follow up. I will check out those links above, thanks appreciate any input.

    Haha, we only know possibility here man.


    I wouldn't have said:

    "I just wanted to make sure you didnt give me a fake #"

    Saying this appears as though this might have happened to you in the past, or that you might have been not expecting her real number 100%.

    To become a future PUA, you start to think like a PUA. YOU ARE THE sh1t! Of COURSE she's going to give you her real number. You're AWESOME.

    Being that she's told you she has a boyfriend, it's the perfect opportunity to use the BF Destroyer!


    For this, you must go AFC in terms of praising her boyfriend.

    e.g. "Oh yeah? Well I'm sure he's a really nice guy. Probably Jacked too."

    You'll notice she may start to disqualify what you're praising him for. If so, you're in the clear.

    -but please take the time to read about the BF destroyer. Great stuff in there!




    Regardless, who says you two can't hang out at one another's house as "friends" and watch a movie? If that ends up happening... Something will almost always happen (her cheating ).


    In conclusion. There are A LOT of options in the PUA world that most men do not know about; hence why they struggle. To preform the above techniques properly, you should learn more about PUA, the terminology, and practice.


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    -Read Xavier's http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...technique.html
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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    Great stuff, you are right about my text too. So you think I should follow up with a AFC text like you suggested? I should only ask to kick it as "friends" if she starts to disqualify?

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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    These are all separate options (although the first will give you a great idea of how she feels about her current relationship):


    -Praise the Boyfriend > See if she starts disqualifying all the good things you say about him > *Now you'll have a general idea of how she REALLY likes her boyfriend compared to you. If she's disqualifying GOOD traits you say about him, she obviously wants you*

    -Kick it as 'friends' > Watch a movie at your house > Kino > BAM

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xavier
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    U can pretend like these word's have no meaning and continue u're game normally or:

    HB: I have a boyfriend
    PUA: We'll be discrete (with a playful look)

    HB: I have a boyfriend
    PUA: Awww, that must be such a big accomplishment for u (this is a neg so do it with a smile and i suggest u pull her back in afterwards)

    PUA:How about we go to x place
    HB:I have a boyfriend
    PUA: So can u not talk to other guys?
    HB:yes i can
    PUA: Can u not have guy friends?
    HB: sure i can
    PUA: Can u not go to x place(e.g.:if x place is a coffee shop u say can u not go to a coffee shop)
    HB: Yes i can
    PUA: Can u not do x thing?(e.g:can u not drink coffee?)
    HB: Sure i can
    PUA: so u can (all of the above) So let's go to x place at x time

    This is a yes ladder u don't have to stretch it out as much but if u use the right tone it could be a playful thing


    Remember that you're new and exiting to her. Don't make her change thoughts about that!



    If you're new to PUA I would VERY VERY STRONGLY suggest you read the newbie guide, and learn more about technique and mechanics, so what you are about to do, is done about the proper way.

    However, if you do not entirely care about her, and only wish to experiment, then go for it!
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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    her-i have a bf
    u-i have two goldfish
    her-lol huh
    u-o i thought we were talking about thing that didnt matter lol
    her -lol ur funny lol

    problem solved

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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    Quote Originally Posted by edmond dantes View Post
    her-i have a bf
    u-i have two goldfish
    her-lol huh
    u-o i thought we were talking about thing that didnt matter lol
    her -lol ur funny lol

    problem solved

    has to be this most definitely

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    Default Re: number closed, but now she texts me she has a boyfriend...

    If you like the challenge then go for it. Sometimes the hassle of sleeping with a girl that may be in good standing with her bf can be a hassle. The input/output is way off balance. A lot of men underestimate the power of female friends. They introduce you to their friends and you don't have to do as much work as if it were a cold approach. Best part is that if your friend finally does split from her bf months or maybe even years later not only did you meet plenty of women along the way with their help, but now you may get sleep with her to. But regardless you don't have to sleep with every hot girl you see. That in itself is AFC.


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