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    Freshmakerr is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Mid club opener ?

    Got miself last night in a bit of a situation...went to a club and got stuck...what o mean by that is, there were no groups that were talking so i could open with some opinion oppeners(wich are my favourite)...people( groups) were all dancing like crazy all nigt !....And i was thinking...what type opener is best to use in this case...cuz you can't go to a set that's jumping and dancing and ask for a opinion....it's just not wrong...big big dlv...so what i was thinking it was to open with a neg or something...to be indirect....
    Please ! any ideas ?...

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    Well to be honest, in a club I don't use to many verbal approaches. First thing I make sure I'm having fun and that I'm one of the fun people who is jumping and dancing and just having a good time, and if there is a stage or something then I'm definitely on it (unless no one else is, then it's just lame). Then it's body language cues all the way, eye contact, smiling, cheeky faces, etc and then the approach happens quite naturally and mutually even. Sometimes it can help when you're dancing and having fun close to her to then extract yourself for a while, go do something else like get a drink or go talk to someone else, etc. This usually releases the Tension in yourself and you reduce the focus on this one girl. Also if she did notice you, it gives her the chance to think, damn, I hope they didn't go home. And then you come back and test the body language eye contact again, whilst dancing. And don't rush it. Let her see you having fun without her.

    So yeah, if you're in a club I wouldn't spend too much time in your head or looking for some verbal approach, make sure you're having fun yourself first and foremost and matching or exceeding her energy.

    Works well for me and is lots of fun too.

    Oh and when the body language is in order, then hey and any comment about her dancing, the music or the venue usually does the trick

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    yeah...i was sure someone would say that...ok, here's the thing...in romania the club music SUCK !!! you can't eaven imagine how shitty it is...but what the hell...i'm gona try that...dow tonight i'm hittin' a couple of coffe shops ...to test some new material Thanks

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    Lol really?! I've been to some sucky clubs as well - that's usually when I look for the girls standing on the side or by the bar or who aren't dancing either and then make jokes about the tragic songs - or I order lots of tequila and get over it lol! Are there no clubs in your area that play the music you like?

    Good luck tonight!

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    Well....plans changed and had to hed home early...no opens...no sets...just got in some plain old conversation with 3 girls...one at a time...went well...didn't run any material on them though...

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    I've started counting those to my "building confidence" repertoire as well as it's all perception anyway, so sounds like good stuff to me!

    Spoke to one girl at the gym today and gave another hottie a cheeky smile as I walked passed her. I like to keep the gym a "neutral" zone if you know what I mean, so it's great for approach practice, but then leaving it simply at that.

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    What I'll usually say is "hey! I don't know where my mom is! do you mind dancing with me until I find her?" usually the girl will chuckle, if she doesn't then move on...Try to say dumb things that will make her laugh, things that you will never find in a club like "I'm looking for the ice cream man! would you like to dance with me and if you see him you let me know?" etc...good luck! =)

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    Default Re: Mid club opener ?

    So, i did it...Last night..Girl dancing in the midle ON A LITTLE STAGE ! with some good looking guys...like male stripers or some shit...opened a 9 set in front of her with a cool magic trick, and i just turned to her smiling and said:
    ME: hey, you just can't look at me like that !
    Her: how do you know i was waching ?
    Me: Checked her from top to botom, and while pretending to leave (bodyrocking) i smiled and said: O yeah, you were looking at me !
    Her: Big smile
    Me: Hold my hand and said: Come, i need your opinion on something
    And she jumped of that stage with hot guys and came with me...from there in about 5 min k-closed her
    Note, i did a combination of Cajun 's and Mystery's methods...and work big time !!!


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