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    karlboro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    I need some responses on this one please.
    i have been just starting out, and i am finding approaching easier every time i go out sarging, but whats next. I almost always loose steam quickly or i just fill in the silences with meaningless BS after the approach.
    most of the time i'm not sure on what to say next, and im also not so confident in keeping the conversation going. any ideas??
    please help.

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    Default Re: what to say next

    have you read the game? or the mystery method? if not read these books, there good for anyone just starting out. the MM is more text base and goes into detail...but if your approaching and cant fins anything to talk about, ask her open ended questions. neg, her make her laugh. if you have nothing build enough comfort to Number Close, and leave it at that.

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    Default Re: what to say next

    try assumption staking it's very easy just make a random assumption about her she'll wanna know why u think that and u won't run out of things to say e.g: u look like a very social person i'd say u work in marketing or advertising she'll say y do u think that ......

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    Default Re: what to say next

    The beauty of pickup is that every approach is brand new, but the same. As you approach more and more, you will find certain conversational themes crop up again and again.

    Google "Attraction Switches" and try to come up with stories about yourself that flip those switches.

    For instance, when I want to flip the "Protector of Women" attraction switch I'll often tell stories from my career where I have to protect "my" girls on the desk staff from drunk businessmen phyiscally imposing themselves on the girls Strauss-Kahn style.

    Learn the attraction switches, learn how to flip them through verbal tales and then come up with a series of tales from your own life that flip those switches.

    That will be a big help.

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    Default Re: what to say next

    I would look into qualification and how to build investment as you transition past opening. Challenge her on certain things, through my experience building attraction only goes so far if she is not invested in you and the interaction. Attraction can get you laid, but it won't lead in mastering the process.


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