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    Default How to work a room?

    How do you work a room full of people? Im talking parties, get together, mixers, basically any room full of people. Im asking this because im constantly invited to these type of events. But usually the host is an ass whole that doesn't introduce me to anybody and leaves me out to dry.

    I want to know how do you work this kind of situation?

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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    It's not his job to introduce you dude. Introduce yourself. It's good to have a couple kids you know come along so you have a "home base" to go back to. But if you don't have that you make your own home base. Take a seat in the corner, grab a drink, sit back and chillax. That's your home base. Don't look depressed or anything about it, you're just relaxing. A lot of times people will come to you. Girls too. When you feel up to it get up and go talk to some people. They won't bite. Home base is there if you need it.

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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    You shouldn't expect anyone to introduce you. Although good hosts should do this, they might not at times.

    With PUA, only depend on yourself at all times; everything else is only extra help.

    Are you new to PUA? If so, how much do you know already?

    If not, I would reccomend you read "The Game" by Neil Strauss, and/or check out Virgil's The Newbie Guide

    In this situation, you would have to use an opener of sorts, and build up dhv. What kind of mixers are you usually invited to?
    Always feel free to PM me

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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    yeah agree with sonnycurtis..its not his job to introduce you, his job was to invite you!! now when you go to a party, ect walk in with a smile, and immidiately walk into the frist group of people you see. just start talking, anything, just talk..keep doing this and i garantee you people will begin to notice "hey, this guy is not shy what so ever...?" than before you know it, people are going to be going up to you and talk to you...just because you were the only guy in the entire party, kickback, ect who took the time to talk to evey single group of people...done this myself about 3 times once per week, and it works wonders...just dont be shy, and do your thing..youll be okay.
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    jgray52 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    Well I get the home base part. And yes girls do come up to me. And I almost always get a close at these events. But thats because of people coming to me, only because they don't know who I am.
    I want to know how you go about not being approached but doing the approaching. When I usually approach I get stuck in that circle and just stay in my comfort zone. How should I go about really getting around to everyone something like host?

    FYI im a newbie when comes to Pua.

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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    lol what i normally do, is ill go up to everyone and ask them if there enjoying themselfs...normally they would ask if i was the one having the party, i would than say no..im just concerned about them having fun! 8-10 it gets a conversation going. i tell them im in charge of making people have fun...and if you havent read the game i recommend it, or the mystery method also...look up Sinn on youtube on his 1 hour conference thats really who i follow...the whole point of being a PUA or getting into the game is to get out of that comfort zone...
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    Default Re: How to work a room?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gambet View Post
    lol what i normally do, is ill go up to everyone and ask them if there enjoying themselfs...normally they would ask if i was the one having the party, i would than say no..im just concerned about them having fun! 8-10 it gets a conversation going. i tell them im in charge of making people have fun...and if you havent read the game i recommend it, or the mystery method also...look up Sinn on youtube on his 1 hour conference thats really who i follow...the whole point of being a PUA or getting into the game is to get out of that comfort zone...
    Thanks, I'll try that next time. lol just going around like you are the host doesn't sound like a bad idea.


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