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    doublee is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I want my Best Friend

    So this girl really does it for me..
    From the second that I met her I fell in love with her,
    And I honestly feel that this is real love
    and that we are meant to be together.

    But I don't think she truly knows how i fell.
    Part of that is probably because I feel that she
    cuts me off every time we get close,she probably doesn't
    want to feel used,or taken advantage of because I do
    seem like a player, the way i speak with girls or how i dress.

    We are really good friends,I mean we always speak on the phone
    and Facebook and meet up for dinner allot.
    also she does trust me meeting her super hot 18 year old sister
    and offers to pay sometimes when we go out.

    Truthfully - I do think that she is attracted and feels comforted my me in some ways,but I think she may be afraid.

    I don't know what to do,I have been feeling this way for many years..

    Probably the most of you will tell me to drop this case,but I want her,

    NOPE DONT WANT TO BE THAT LOSER.
    But when I do step back,she steps forwards.

    Bottom Line??How do I get this girl to see me as a potential partner?

    How do i make her want me?
    Please any advice will help!

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    Default Re: I want my Best Friend

    Dude, I just looked up average frustrated chump in the dictionary and your post came up.

    Seriously. Player? More like frustrated chump.

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    Default Re: I want my Best Friend

    Take it easy Chance - the guys asking for advice. What's your problem bro'?

    doublee, you are in a serious bind my man. To get this girl, you're obviously going to have to risk the whole friendship. It's a high risk high reward game.

    To start with you are going to have to introduce sexual Tension into the friendship. PM me and we can try work something out.

    Hope this helps
    rs5096

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    Default Re: I want my Best Friend

    Although the words didn't come out right, Chance has a point. Doublee, you seem to have huge oneitis, which is usually an attraction killer on her part. And you're friends with her, too. It's going to be a tough one, but luckily rs5096 is willing to help you one-on-one.

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    doublee is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I want my Best Friend

    Thanks guys,I think I am a bit of AFC with this Girl.
    But I need to change my act.
    Il give it one more try with rs5096's advice,and If i dont
    see her change her act towards my im gonna let her go
    and this time forever.

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    Default Re: I want my Best Friend

    Here's my advice. In all my life (I'm 39) most of my good true friends are men or female colleagues. Women come and go as 'friends'. I didn't pounce on some 'friends' because 'I didn't want to risk the friendship' but in the fullness of time they were never long term close friends anyway because eventually they fell into long term relationships or I did. So I personally wouldn't worry about loosing a friendship whose underlying emotion is charged with sexuality. Make a move. If it works you get the girl of your dreams. If it doesn't it frees you both up to persue new partners. Bring it to the boil.


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