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    Default Re: A little advice with one really pretty girl

    I think you should start talking and getting attraction from her friends while you pretty much ignore your target. if you can do this, two good things will happen:

    1. She will like you more.

    2. You will heal emotionally and stop getting so fixated on a girl you don't know. I can't tell you how many times I hooked up with a hottie only to be turned off after I've gotten to know her personality. You don't know enough about her to like her that much. You shouldn't be giving her this much respect.

    To have that much focus and emotion on a girl you haven't talked to MISTAKE on many, many levels.

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    Default Re: A little advice with one really pretty girl

    To boost your confidence, you need to practice on ugly/average girls for a short period (one week) in order to get some experience/practice. DO IT ASAP!!
    Approach them to knock your anxiety. 10-20 girls and you'll see improvements then you can move on ( you really seem to like her and you don't want to screw up, I've been there and this is the only method, However, there are things out of your control, so there are always chances that she rejects you and it might not be your fault, some thing you need to man up about)
    To be successful in this area of life, we have to maximize our efficiency in every step, which concludes that if you're only playing the number game without any techniques, you're failure is far more probable than if the game was played more effectively.

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    Default Re: A little advice with one really pretty girl

    I don't really have anything going for me except a whole lot of life experience, and keep in mind that my advice is worth exactly what you've paid for it.

    It looks like you've been given a lot of good advice already that I agree with.

    (1) You really don't even know her. You know ABOUT her, you THINK she's attractive, and you have interest, but there are literally billions of women on the planet - thre really are more that are sure to be very much like her, or better. And by better, that usually means better FOR YOU.

    (2) Stop fixating on her. Do whatever you need to do in your head and your own personal space to sever your IRRATIONAL mental and emotional ties to this girl. YOU made them, you can break them, or identify their true nature and see through them for what they really are.
    Picture what it could be like if she was very very wrong for you, and deeply hurt you. Picture it for real. You don't deserve that, right? You're better than that, right? While you can accept and acknowledge and own your own feelings, you should be shifting your focus to detaching and seeing past what's on the surface and finding out who she really is and what makes her tick. Is she really anything like what you think she is or hopes she is? What does SHE have to offer YOU?

    (3) You're focused outside of yourself and looking for validation of your own self worth based upon someone else's immutable prejudices. You not only need to like yourself, you need to unshakably KNOW - intellectually and emotionally - what a great guy you are, and change the way you think about this from the ground up. Your whole post is about you chasing her and demonstrating your inherent worth. You need to turn it completely around and look at from the perspective that the world, your life, is your oyster, and there's only so many years that you have to live it. Those years can only "hold" so much, and so you should fill it with quality, not cheap junk that doesn't last or truly wastes those years because you will never get them back.

    I recommend - you won't know why until you read it - a "financial" book: Your Money or Your Life. It's about WAY more than money.

    (4) Talk to other girls that you don't have any emotional investment with. You'll build your skills, your sense of confidence and self worth, and you'll widen your circle of friends. You might even meet a girl that's just as good or better in the process. You'll build Social Status and create jealousy. Then, you can approach her from the position of "I already have [access to] anything you could give me or more. What do YOU have to offer me? What really makes YOU so great? What qualifies you as being worthy to be a part of my life that I would spend my valuable time with you?"

    Just my noob 2 cents.

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    Default Re: A little advice with one really pretty girl

    it is beyond me why men continue to come up with these threads hoping to get a different answer than what has already been said hundreds of times.

    I am not going to lie. I been there done that but through experience I have learned and adopted a new attitude that continues to surprise the hell out of me. There are literally a shit ton of women out there. As a man I will not lie and say I don't get focused on a chic every once in a while but then it's the next day and guess what? I new one shows up.

    You have at your disposal information that believe it or not, not many men have! there is an insane amount of knowledge in these forums that in just one night, if you take everything and run with it can surprise the crap out of you.

    Dude go out to a night venue and just appreciate what is taking place. This is the part I love the most when I first go to the clubs/bars whatever. If you dress to impress, carry yourself with confidence and so on you will have an vast amount of opportunities that you may not have right now, and when you start playing the field you will realize that this one chic really doesn't mean crap.

    Most guys here where I am dress the same. Shorts, sandals, t-shirts, baseball caps, cowboy hats(wow), and even carry chewing tabacco in their back pockets or in their lips. Now this is stupid. Go out and dress properly, look around and don't be shocked when a girl is the one that opens you up and starts dancing/grinding on you without you even saying a word. I can promise you that if you don't take shit too serious when this happens this one little lady wont mean a damn thing anymore.

    The biggest thing to remember, and this is what pushes me to go out and keep trying to learn/recalibrate my own personal approaches and so on is that YOU ARE A MAN! Men are meant by nature to go out there and find female companions. This is nature and by you limiting yourself to one woman all you are doing is fighting something that is engrained in you. So in other words, Alpha the fuck up! and forget this chic!
    To my bros who served with me.
    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

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    Default Re: A little advice with one really pretty girl

    Quote Originally Posted by hbprince View Post
    So should I stop even saying "Hi" to her or what ? Because I didn't really understand you. By the way I deleted my facebook, so this is not a factor anymore.
    You deleted your facebook because you're scared this girl wont accept your friend request ???

    WTF !! you're going super AFC on us .


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