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    Default How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Yeah, it's hard to be cool and collect when you can't hear yourself think.

    The options are either:
    1) Go somewhere dark and quiet, like I'm Gollum from Lord of The Rings, or
    2) Screaming questions over booming house music

    I don't want to straight-up dismiss these places, because I find the girls are typically way more...informal. I just know there's got to be a better system to deal with the noise.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Yeah don't want to be trying to talk to a girl in a loud club. If you can barely hear her, she won't hear you. Too much effort. You could write 'my precious?' in large text on your phone and flash it at her if you want to be gollum

    Loud clubs can be tough scenes but EVERYONE there is limited in what they can hear so work the other senses of sight, touch and smell if your wearing nice aftershave. Most women are there to dance and be looked at and are usually in tight groups but difficult to actually talk to anyone unless they have a decent chill out room or somewhere quiet. But they will also be looking so get noticed. Dont stand at the bar oggling at her. You could try just being honest with her and say it's too loud to talk, would she like to join your table in a quiet part of the club for a drink? It's direct and confident and might work on a shy girl or if you are shy but a better way is to utilize the other senses by making sure she notices you. A smile will work wonders to start with. If you do talk to her all you need is to say is 'would you like to dance' just like at those old school dances or 1 quick charming thing like you dig her dress. Make her notice you by always smiling and being confident around other people and she will remember you. She may even come find you.

    I'm not so good at doing the sleazy dirty dancing thing but dancing instantly gets you close to the girl physically so even if you can't turn on the magic on the dancefloor you can try grab her hand, waist or move in close on a slower song. In dancing its kind of expected to do that so loud clubs can be a potential goldmine as long as your not sleazy up front. When I was a teenager my school organized dances and while I was too young to get much physical action my mates and I would have competitions to see who could dance with the most girls. What awesome training now when I look back at it! Go into a club with a mission to dance with many girls. I have to Remind myself I could do it when I was 14 so I can definitely do it now. Plus just by actually dancing you have put yourself above most men on the planet! Girls love dancing but I've found that not many are actually any good at it. Most just sort of sway about and maybe they just don't want to get too sweaty. So you don't even have to dance well, just try dancing close to her straight away or you will both be distant and boring or you will end up ogling at her. Girls I've found don't really look at you when they dance unless you are close to them. Smile and have fun first, get sexy second. Then get number or if you were physical enough on the dancefloor take her home.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Clubs are where fashion and wild peacocking really come in. The big loud club is where you wear the scolling signs and light necklaces.

    That kind of silly stuff is chick crack. I love dark black lit clubs because I wear a white sport coat that glows under the lamps and when paired with otherwise black clothing with a few carefully placed accessories that catch black light. The effect is stunning. It's like a blazing chick beacon.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Find a club with a big smoking patio, preferably one with a bar out there too. Smoking is generally a social activity, so more than likely the music will be much less loud. You don't even have to smoke! Some clubs have a gated smoking section in the front, right by the line of people waiting to get in. If you can get some hot girls in line to see you with women around you, talking, laughing etc, it will boost your value in their eyes. Hell, you're already in the club and they're not!

    If there's a girl you really want to open and it's just TOO LOUD to do it, continue gaming other women and wait for her to go to the bathroom, then open her on the way out. Most bathrooms aren't close to the dance floor, and the areas farthest from the floor are a bit quieter.

    Show up downtown early and get wristband from a couple different clubs. Then leave the club and open women on the street until you get a group of girls into you, and then have them join you back to the club! Saves the step of opening inside where it's loud.

    I find the longer I'm in a club the less I notice the noise, but that's just me.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    In clubs, when I have success are the times I hardly speak. Strong eye contact, social circle, Kino, and just leading the interaction by where I want to take it.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Most of it is body language and sound bites. And if you're a good dancer than a whole other playing field opens up. They're techniques with dancing to accomplish the same things in pickup as if you were talking to them to build attraction.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    this is some good advice, look forward to trying it in the future.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Get your ass into the vip area somehow. Of course you can
    n game in clubs without that as well, but it boosts your results massively, and you get to know people that are really good DHVs. Youll probably have girls opening you if you do it right.

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    Default Re: How do you open in a loud-ass club?

    Dance floor game is your best friend. Don't open, but dance and let the girl come to you...when you're not a another creepy attempting to hit on them.


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