Yeah, it's hard to be cool and collect when you can't hear yourself think.
The options are either:
1) Go somewhere dark and quiet, like I'm Gollum from Lord of The Rings, or
2) Screaming questions over booming house music
I don't want to straight-up dismiss these places, because I find the girls are typically way more...informal. I just know there's got to be a better system to deal with the noise.