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    SkirtChaser is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How Do You Guys Tell If A Girl Is Single Or Not?

    How do you guys usually tell if a girl is single? Do you walk straight up, use your opener and ask it in conversation? What if he walks up and gets defensive? Or do you usually flirt before the approach using eye contact, glances, etc.?

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    Default Re: Single Or Not?

    Quote Originally Posted by SkirtChaser View Post
    How do you guys usually tell if a girl is single? Do you walk straight up, use your opener and ask it in conversation? What if he walks up and gets defensive? Or do you usually flirt before the approach using eye contact, glances, etc.?
    Assume they are always single unless they can prove otherwise with her significant other's direct presence.

    Wedding Ring? Find out if they have been married longer than 3 years. That's about the right time for them to start looking for greener pastures.

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    Default Re: Single Or Not?

    Haha, what comes into play when he walks up and is offended you're talking to his girlfriend then?

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    Default Re: Single Or Not?

    Simply apologize then commend him on his wonderful girlfriend.
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    Default Re: Single Or Not?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Simply apologize then commend him on his wonderful girlfriend.
    Impressive sir. Makes perfect sense.

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    Default Re: How Do You Guys Tell If A Girl Is Single Or Not?

    If you start flirting with a girl often she will say she has a boyfriend in conversation. This is not neccassarily bad news. It may be just insecurity or a natural defense mechanism but usually doesn't qualify anything about how solid they are. Otherwise just ask them 'do you have a boyfriend?'

    If you are in a situation where the boyfriend is there and comes over defensively, stay cool and try let him make a jealous mistake - like art of war, you don't always have to win but do your best job and wait for your enemy to loose.

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    Default Re: How Do You Guys Tell If A Girl Is Single Or Not?

    I wouldn't care if she's actually single or not, if I want to talk to her, I'll talk to her and if something comes out of it ( i.e. K-close, #-close, whatever ) then fine. If she's in a relationship that is falling apart already, I'll go for it. If she's in a happy relationship, I'll just leave it at that.

    The thing is these types of things shouldn't concern you in the moment. If she IS single and interested in you, she'll somehow let you know ( i.e. ioi's ) and it's up to you to take it or leave it.


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