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    I just moved to a new city and didn't know anyone. I looked on Facebook and realized there was a hot girl who I had a bunch of friends in common with who lived here. I messaged her and she invites me to go out with her and her friends. We get drunk and she comes back over to smoke weed. We kick it but nothing happens and she goes home. The next night she invites me out again with her and her friends only this time there is this guy there who is all over her. Whatever, I just talk to her friends. The next day she invites me to go out again with her, her friends and mystery dude. We all hang out and get drunk, I'm just glad to have people to hang out w really, and then she goes home with mystery dude.

    Well this guy is apparently some sort of boyfriend although she has yet to introduce him as that. However, he lives 3 hours away and the second he goes home this girl is texting me wanting to hang out.


    This girl is very hot and very cool and I'm sure has a sh1t ton of hot friends etc

    Question: should I make a move and risk farking myself out of a great social connection or should I just leave it be?

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    Default Re: Advice on situation I'm in

    well she seems like she might want to make you a little jealous possibly or she just thinks your fun and if she hasnt hinted at anything then one of her friends probably like you either way flirt with her friends use them to get at her but dont just flirt with one of them flirt with the group but always go back to her if you are sure you want to pursue it

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    Default Re: Advice on situation I'm in

    This girl is what David Wygant commonly refers to as a "point" person--someone to make friends with because they come with benefits and advantages. The grocery store clerk. The blackjack dealer. The hot girl with hot friends.

    Flirt with her friends keep growing your social tree. You're new so you don't want to fuck over one of the few connections you have, at least not yet.
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    Default Re: Advice on situation I'm in

    She's texting you straight away so the relationship between her and mystery man is not set in concrete. Assume the mystery man is a local bore and you are the new hot guy in town. Your going to get her to put him on ice - he is her past and you are her future. You dont have to say that but think it. Ask her out and get closer to her physically. Be more of an alpha male than mystery guy is. You can make a move AND keep the social connection - in fact presenting yourself as the confident new guy who is going to succeed no matter what will surely make her want you too. If she says no completely, openly discuss if she has any friends she could introduce. She might realise, 'wait this is a good guy, I dont want my friends to have him, I want him!' Or you will have made a move and it didnt work so you will now be more relaxed around her company because the pressure if off. A girl is unlikely to cut you off from her circle just for liking her and making a subtle but clear move. She will be flattered and might come back to you at a later date. Thats where you need to position yourself.


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