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    Default Alpha Conversation - The Right Way

    Sup Fellas,

    So I’ve seen quite a number of guys now who in their posts say they asked her this or they asked her that. Though there is nothing wrong with asking, there is something to be said about statements.

    In The Game, Juggler advocates the use of statements. I get told by women frequently that as men try to build rapport, they are actually interrogating the sh1t out of them. It’s a nonstop questionnaire, and it goes beyond the rapport building stage. Let me use a few different examples:

    [Texting]“Hey, want to get a bite to eat with me before class?”

    “Yeah, sure. Where were you thinking?”

    “I don’t know, what would you like?”

    You may think you are doing well here, and you could be, but you could also be doing a lot better.

    “Get lunch with me before class. 12:00 at The Rialto.”

    “Ok, I’ll be a few minutes late.”

    What the difference here? You are leading. You are making decisions and taking out a lot of Fluff that doesn’t need to be there. I promise you that the majority of women would rather go to a terrible restaurant and eat food they don’t like than have to choose the venue themselves. Even if the place sucks at least you get a funny story out of it. Here are a few more examples similar to this genre (These being especially applicable to texting.):

    “Hey, what are you doing tonight? Want to watch a movie?”

    Instead

    “We’re watching a movie tonight, just you and me.”

    Next

    “Would you like to come over?”

    Instead

    “Come over”

    Next

    “I want you to go down on me.”

    Instead

    “Go down on me.” [Not text, obviously lol]



    A mistake often made in conversation is the assumption that you have to continue asking her questions in order for her to respond. Stop thinking this way. If you say a statement, she will feel compelled to reply with a similar one. Example:

    “How old are you?”

    That was bad.

    “I’m 67.”

    “I’m 104.”

    The latter warrants a response. By stating your age she will feel the need to do the same. Next.

    “How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?”

    Instead

    “I took an hour long shower this morning. It was awesome.”

    Starting to see what I’m getting at?



    [Side note] Before I do this last one, let me mention it is important to become a good story teller. Women love stories, and it has its perks. I’ll explain in just a second.

    “So what do you like to do in your free time? Are you into sports?”

    Instead

    “I’ve got a funny story for you. A couple years ago my friend Bobby and I went to state dance to support my little sister…”

    This may be the best one here. Instead of asking questions you tell a story, and in this story you get the opportunity to do many things. Display your interests. Show yourself as a fluent communicator. Bring up family values (sister.) Make her laugh (the story ends with a punch line.)



    Alpha up. Use less questions and more statements. Peace.
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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation

    i agree 100 percent with every thing you just said good post man

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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation

    Good post, I love statements and openly discussing what I am going to do with a girl. I couldn't do it when I was younger but now I can say all sorts of things. Ive used this a lot:

    'Later tonight I'm going to kiss your whole body head to toe'

    Your confidence will arouse her, what you have just described doing will arouse her and the rest of the night will be anticipation for it happening.

    If she says 'in your dreams'...or 'oh really? I dont think so' or whatever. Say 'yes I am very good at it. My soft lips tracing the planes of your body, I know you will like it'. All women want to experience a good lover and almost all good lovers are proud of their ability. Use sensual imagery. If she gets really cold on you then she's a wet blanket and you can tell her that too. Every women wants to be kissed head to toe. She cannot refuse and if she does why is she on a date with you? One time I was on a date and started bringing up that sort of thing and she went kind of insecure 'oh thats all men think about, is that how you see me huh?'. I told her 'that phrase is something only a young insecure girl would say, I thought I was dating a women. Oh well guess we shouldn't continue this' and I stood up. I did it matter of factly, not angrily. She was like suddenly 'no, no sit down, I want to'

    Bingo I just got her to verbally say yes to me kissing her whole body which is full closure of course. And all with out a single question.

    I have my hotel date tonight, will have to make sure I dont ask her back to my room but state we are going back to the room.

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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation

    Good post bro!

    I'm trying to be more direct. I had a girl in my car two nights ago, who told me twice she believes semen is good for her skin and pushed up her tits as she said it (as in she likes to get titty farked)

    My reply both times : "I think we should experiment that"

    I think I should have just began to unzip at this time.

    I got nothing on this date.

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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation

    Next time just say, "I'm going to titty fuck you." Then grab her hand and put it on your dick.
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    Great write up onethousand. This Mindset is fundemental and as a noob (rAFC) myself coming up this serves as a great lesson.

    “How old are you?”

    That was bad.

    “I’m 67.”

    “I’m 104.”


    The latter warrants a response. By stating your age she will feel the need to do the same. Next.
    This is great^ I'm going to do it that way and test it on my style.

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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    A mistake often made in conversation is the assumption that you have to continue asking her questions in order for her to respond. Stop thinking this way. If you say a statement, she will feel compelled to reply with a similar one. Example:

    “How old are you?”

    That was bad.

    “I’m 67.”

    “I’m 104.”

    The latter warrants a response. By stating your age she will feel the need to do the same. Next.
    Just to say that you don't always have to state your age/profession and stuff to make the conversation. I often state theirs See it as cold reading I think.

    "Let me guess, you are.. 22." (Age is tricky, I would actually do it as less as possible, lined field... unless it comes in the conversation, like she says something a bit naive and you're like "Oh! Sorry I didn't realize you were 16 I'll be out, don't want to have toruble with the cops" or something)

    "So let me guess.. you are.. a doctor" (always say something somehow higher than what you think she is; don't say "I think you're a cashier ", duh. Even if you know she is a cashier. You don't want her to feel insulted, and when she actually says what she is doing, she will lower her value a bit herself, makes it easier for you)

    You can also make it ridiculous: "Let me guess... You are... A lion trainer. In a circus." If used correctly, you can use it to build comfort later in the convo: "Hey, don't think you can lead me around just because you're used to lions! I'm a whole other sort of beast "

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    ^I like your cold reading concept.
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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation - The Right Way

    Been using more direct statements and such and it works great. Displays huge confidence which women love, used it today and got a date for tommorow hah. Nice post man.

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    Default Re: Alpha Conversation - The Right Way

    Very good post I really like this!


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