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    Default what happened to me not being able to close?

    Hey guys. I apologize to the moderators if this post is offensive. It's not intended and I am sincerely looking for answers why this date didnt work out. So I picked up a young 18yr old. She's young and was drinking of course. That night she was willing to hug me and easily got close when I put my arm around her. Anyways, tonight, I thought I could easily fark her. I picked her up, we both had liquor, and I even bought her food. I took her to a beach and we drank in my car. I could go into the details of us sitting in the car and talking, but I wonder if I'm on to something. I noticed that as I talked about random stuff, even though I was cocky funny, the more she seemed to change her view of me...like I was a "nice guy". She refused to kiss me telling me she doesn't kiss until she gets to know a guy or date a guy...which I believe is complete bs!! I believe she is a..how can I say a whore, she has over 1000 friends on internet and many are guys of all different ages. Every attempt I made after our little walk on the beach she refused. As we were driving home and my ego was severely bruised, I began to be alittle bit of a prick. I began bragging about my sex skills and how she broke my record of getting laid on a date of over 5 years (an outright lie). But what I noticed as I was driving her home and telling her how good I am in bed and even began telling her I want to fark her hard (I had nothing left to lose) I began to see smiles from her and her resistance starting to wane. I even pulled out my part in the car, driving home and showed her its size. (I seem to become a big jerk if I don't get laid) She commented and seemed to kinda like my new attitude.

    What I want to know, is, if I had stopped caring or showed no care at the beginning of the date, would I have been laid? Am I right, that this girl was beginning to dig me, after I became blunt and kept telling her I want to fark her hard and bragging about my skills to her? Do GIRLS SECRETLY LIKE THE JERK? Also, I have a problem of rejection. I texted her a few times after I dropped her off, being angry and telling her she wasted my time and stuff like that. How can I control my tongue after my ego had been destroyed? Now I look desperate when I text her back saying I was just angry and blah blah. She told me at the end of the date that she wants to hang out again...which I should take because I really don't have any friends that are girls...Im just use to wanting to fark and if I get turned down, I get angry and rude.

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    Default Re: what happened to me not being able to close?

    Oh hey guys, one other thing. When I was driving her home, I demanded from her that she tell me what I did wrong (in a funny way, not violent of course). She kept saying I didn't do anything wrong and that she just doesn't kiss a guy she had just met blah blah bs.

    Guys, my ego is severely bruised. Why couldn't I f-close on this girl who I believe gets around?

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    Default Re: what happened to me not being able to close?

    Maybe she doesn't get around on first dates but opens up afterwards. How many people honestly get sex first date consistently? Very few. It's all a process.

    I have a mate who says he sometimes just starts undressing when a girl is back in his apartment. If she doesn't leave he knows he's going to succeed. I tell him by accepting to come into his apartment she is already accepting the idea of having sex with him anyway. He probably looses more girls from dropping his pants but each to their own.

    A jerk is someone that wouldn't have driven them home. What they seem to like is a guy who knows what he wants and is not nervous around women (because he is used to being around them). This is what you did. They also like emotionally strong men who can show restraint and respect. This you didnt do. Did her attitude change because of what you were doing or because she knew she now had you wrapped around her finger in total control? She probably relished every minute of you loosing control and getting frustrated. Food for thought.

    If you ask her out again she'll probably crumble.

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    Default Re: what happened to me not being able to close?

    crumble as in give in and go out?

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    Default Re: what happened to me not being able to close?

    Crumble as in let you in her pants She knows whats coming and if she says yes to go out again she will likely go all the way.

    I lived in asia for a while. I never once got a girl to bed first date but on the second date they were like a JAV porn star. Like fishing, wait until the hook is in the mouth before you jerk the rod

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    Default Re: what happened to me not being able to close?

    Thanks bro. I felt so frustrated and out of options. I had spent two hours talking out of my ass and was drinking in a parked car. When she continued to say No, I couldn't understand. She was wearing a bikini under her clothes and occasionally played with her tongue ring and pushed out her chest but then other times looked at her phone and the whole thing was awkward.


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