Hello all. I'm about to turn 22. In the past I have been avoiding most of the social interactions, for example i haven't been going out in high school, I just stayed at home playing video games. I am not geeky looking since I dress really well which gives me lots of attention from women because where I live most guys don't put effort in how they look so i appear more of a High value I guess.
I just started my social life actually.. got 2 jobs that offer lots of interactions with people and i am slowly gaining really cool friends, not to mention that my brother is celebrity so that helps a lot. I have noticed that some women are wondering why i never "pull the trigger", even the ones that i never had a conversation with.. i guess word comes around fast in small towns.
The area of my life that i would like to change is not only about girls it's about guys too.. i want to be more talkative. Like for example, i just got back from drinks with my fairly new buddies and i was quiet almost all the time while they were talking.
When I'm talking to just one person I'm more talkative but i would still like to improve it to a point when i will always have something to say.
If i had those conversational skills my life would be so much better so I really wanna get this fixed. It's like i don't have motivation to build a conversation.. and I want that thrill of interacting with people. It's easier with people that I have known for awhile since I know what we have in common etc.
Any recommendations on what material i could read to motivate me or something...
Thanks a lot