i'm a total introvert but i really define me for the rest of my life. ok i see really attactive girl i want to hook up with. what's my next step when she is with some guy or girl friends. is it a good idea to walk up sole or with a wingman? what's the first word that should come out of my mouth? how do i lead her into a good conversation? or should i go and hide under a rock cuz i know it wouldn't go well? this is coming from a guy with low self-esteem that is decent looking.