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    mikester is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default you see a girl now what?

    i'm a total introvert but i really define me for the rest of my life. ok i see really attactive girl i want to hook up with. what's my next step when she is with some guy or girl friends. is it a good idea to walk up sole or with a wingman? what's the first word that should come out of my mouth? how do i lead her into a good conversation? or should i go and hide under a rock cuz i know it wouldn't go well? this is coming from a guy with low self-esteem that is decent looking.

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    Default Re: you see a girl now what?

    It doesn't matter if you're by yourself or not and it doesn't matter what you say. Say, "Hey."

    This is the order by which you want to win people over:

    Guys in the group.
    Other women in the group.
    Your target.
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    Default Re: you see a girl now what?

    the more you care less the quicker u get dem. try getting in more swings til you get that its not big deal

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    Default Re: you see a girl now what?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post

    This is the order by which you want to win people over:

    Guys in the group.
    Other women in the group.
    Your target.
    This is really important, if you ever approach a girl in a group make sure you interact with the whole group. Even if a girl is just with one girl friend make sure you get rapport with her or she will guard your target like a rottweiler.

    If you have a group yourself (at a club or bar or wherever) its a bit easier, you can merge them like two cells.

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    Default Re: you see a girl now what?

    You can just walk up to a woman and tell her she looks attractive and that's why you wanted to meet her. Confidence is key, so smile, look her straight in the eyes and use a low toned voice. Then get to know her a bit, dhv and ask her out for a drink. Be specific about the time and location you'll meet up at (just location if you're going on an insta-date).

    There's a lot more to it, but that's a basic layout for you. Since you're not confident yet no approach will work because no matter what you do, confidence is the most important thing in attracting women. So read up on this topic first and work on yourself a little to improve your confidence.


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