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    Default Opener that worked really well for me

    Last night I went out to the bar with a friend in Wilmington, NC.

    This is the first time I go out trying stuff out since my return from Afghanistan and decided to try something new.

    There were a group of girls taking pics by the bar and the one holding the camera was in my personal opinion a solid 9. I was already drunk by the time I approached but not annoying drunk which is good lol.

    Anyway, after they took the pic she began putting her hair up and without skipping a beat I walked up to her and tried a low risk opener I read in a the routine manual:

    Me: You shouldn't do that!
    Her: Do what?
    Me: Wear your hair up! You should wear it down then you would look perfect!
    Her: Smiles and says thank you.

    Any way not to drag the story too much she puts her hair down right away and we begin talking. At one point her friend decides to jump in to cock block and I dominated that sh1t and passed it on to my boy and it worked really well because he wanted her in the first place.

    At one point I see the girl I liked trying to get a drink and like two chodes are trying to pick her up and I said fark that so I go by her and begin chatting it up again. Everything went down hill when she decided I should buy her a drink and I pretty much refused. I said let make a deal and you buy me a round and I buy the second round. She gets damn near offended and said that's not how it works blah blah blah and that's for ppl who are dating. Whatever I'm not having it because I just don't buy women drinks.

    Anyway I would say the opener worked wonders. Even my friend was impressed but the outcome wasn't what I want it. Oh well last night was about having fun and popping my cherry per say.

    Now this girl was into me but after I refused it all went down and she decided to bounce and drag her friend with her.

    What do you guys think? Please provide your advice since I am literally brand new at picking up women.

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    never give compliments like that as an opener. you basically are letting her know you already are flirting with her and want her. calm it down. the only compliments you should ever give are to sure things to make them feel special again and side hand compliments which can be took as 2 ways.

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    interesting take thanks for the advice.

    I guess the reason I went for that one was because it was a recommended one. Either way I'm here to learn so thanks!

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    If a situation like that ever arises again. Say woh stop stop. Don't put your hair up, and wait for her to ask why. Then talk about how she looks liadback and approachable and the hair up would ruin that look

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    That's cool u tried that one.. I think its meant to be Direct Game kinda line but its a neg too- like 'u don't look good this way but ill show u how u do', and I think u pulled it off well.
    The fact that she didn't like ur choice of not buying her a drink.. probably means she's either 'old-skool' but more likely a biatch tryin to take advantage ha.
    Good not to give into that, but it shouldn't cause a girl to leave wow. Don't have to refuse like its against ur religion but still, u tried to play fair so watever.
    Sounds like ur makin moves man, just keep bustin out there and have fun!
    Cheers

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    Lol yeah I think the opener served its purpose but the outcome is whatever.

    On a side note I been going out dressed a lot better and trying new shit. Spin kiss works like a charm. I've had dudes shake my hand and compliment how I dress. Def a morale boost and women have noticed. I spun this solid 9 infront of a dude that was kicking game to her and she kissed me. Next thing you know other chics were kissing me also lol.

    I guess it's true. Attitude and confidence does wonders. Knowing you are the best dressed dude with a fedora at a club sorrounded by college girls= easy game bahahaha.

    Cheers fellas!

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    Haa nice man, keep it up. Rockin the fedora eh.. cool

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    Yeah got me one in black that i paid like 30 bucks for and women like it. Got a tan one i got when i was drunk in ny and i paid 170 eh herm lol. But that one really works with chics lol

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    I think it was good. You showed interest, but gave a nag at the same time by saying she wasn't completely perfect off the bat. Its give and take. I've had some girls buy me drinks for saying buy me a round, and others say no its not how it works. Its just a luck of the draw half the time

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    Default Re: Opener that worked really well for me

    You can say anything as long as you are confident, non-needy, and dont take the situation too seriously. By the sounds of it he was cool about it, confident and playfull. The reason direct openers tend to backfire with noobs is they arent comfortable and are doing it for approval, he wasnt, he was doing it for FUN and stimulating her emotions. The more experience you have, and the stronger your inner game is, the better complements straight off the bat works.


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