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    Default Kinda confused... What just happened?

    So I met this girl that works in the same hospital as me on saturday, and we been txting back and forth for the past three days. Ive been using this website for advice on how to improve my txting game. Today I saw her again at the job and we seem to have hit it off pretty good. When I got home we started to txting, I asked her out and failed to get a reply back.So I figured I might as well count this up as a lose.I have no problem with rejection, but I would like to know what I did wrong? is three days to soon to ask a girl out ? is there anyway to get her back ? pls help.
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    Default Re: Kinda confused... What just happened?

    Have u been seeing her and talking to her in these 3 days? but even though u haven't 3 days is not too soon. How was u're text game? i would say freeze her out for a week than text her something like 'hey brat! what kind of trouble are u causing?'
    P.S: Do not bring it up if u see her again
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    Default Re: Kinda confused... What just happened?

    I always try ask out in person - you get an answer straight away, it's much harder for them to decline and you are not playing waiting games or wasting time. Also I think a women will see it as more confident than a text offer.

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    Default Re: Kinda confused... What just happened?

    maybe texting was a good way to start up the flirting and conversations, however to show serious interest like wanting to go out some woman want a more personable approach, like a call. everyone texts so frivolously these days and some people take that as a sign of not being too interested. wait a few days and if the texting starts again finsh the deal w a phonecall. ladys love a personal touch and it doesnt get better than hearing the confidence in your voice when you ask her out.




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    Cool Re: Kinda confused... What just happened?

    Depending on the situation, waiting three days and only texting without any escalation could easily be enough to friendzone you. That's especially if you two texted a lot in that period- it basically relegates you to friendzone text body and headed straight for just boring unless you're a great conversationalist. Waiting three days to ask her out also can be read as hesitation by the girl, which makes you look beta.
    You had attraction at first. The best thing, if possible is to avoid texting too much if you don't have a way to meet up with her very soon. She can't be allowed to take you for granted.
    When texting, you have to almost immediately throw in some subtle double entendres and gray area statements that have relationship implications. Don't be afraid to be a little risque; that just tells her you aren't an abstinent tool. No matter what, every girl wants a little bit of bad boy.
    After this, immediately suggest a meetup time. This is where you subtly backtrack and make the meetup very much NOT like a date. That way she can say yes with no pressure and plausible deniability. It also makes her backtrack and wonder whether you like her like that or not. Women love mixed messages.
    Of course, that is if you do ask her through a text. The best thing, as whitedragon mentioned, is to ask in person.

    Think: Initial attraction...Confide nt, slightly sexy texts that also contain IODs...Ask her to a very friendzone sounding activity in person. If you have done these things properly, she will say yes as long as there was attraction to begin with.


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