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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Nice haha basically try and be a silverback gorilla. Lol. Thanks homie.

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    -Chin up, but not too high because looking down on people conveys arrogance;
    -Stand up straight;
    -Don't keep your hands in front of you;
    -Walk slowly with moving arms and shoulders and take big steps;
    -Keep your shoulders relaxed (low) and pressed to the back a little;
    -Look people in the eyes;
    -Speak slowly with a deep, confident voice;
    -Smile (not all the time because it seems weird, but if you're talking to someone for example);
    -Turn your head slowly when someone else calls for your attention;
    -Don't make nervous gestures such as fiddling or drumming the table with your fingers;
    -Look relaxed. When you're sitting down, lean back. Keep your eyes open, but not bug-eyed. Have relaxed, sexual eyes.
    -Look at people when you talk to them; switch between looking at them and looking away when spoken to;
    -Don't always react when someone talks to you and you don't care. Just be like 'hm-hm' and keep looking at what you want to;
    -Be touchy. Whenever there's a girl standing close enough for you to use Kino without stretching your arm, do so a lot;
    -When locking eye contact with a woman, smile and wink at her;
    -In overall, just show confident, relaxed body language.

    This is from the top of my head and I think it covers most of it. If you ever wonder what body language to show, just think of what you'd convey if you didn't care about talking to that girl whatsoever.
    Now (4 months later) I realize you automatically use most of this body language when you're very confident and honest.

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Nice post virgil... you should write up a more complete version (or if u have lmk).

    As far as negging, like most things in pua it can be expressed as many different things. I use it as a blanket term for when u point out one of her faults. Teasing, 'point system' etc ... they all neg to a certain extent. The point should be to call out her bad behaviors, not (as u said) to bring her down to your level. Your level as an alpha is always higher than any woman. You are more important than any woman.

    But there are times where you have been talking to her a few minutes and you can tell she is VERY arrogant or something. Thats a case where a neg is almost required to get her to lose the attitude or destroy her shield
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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Nice post virgil... you should write up a more complete version (or if u have lmk).

    As far as negging, like most things in pua it can be expressed as many different things. I use it as a blanket term for when u point out one of her faults. Teasing, 'point system' etc ... they all neg to a certain extent. The point should be to call out her bad behaviors, not (as u said) to bring her down to your level. Your level as an alpha is always higher than any woman. You are more important than any woman.

    But there are times where you have been talking to her a few minutes and you can tell she is VERY arrogant or something. Thats a case where a neg is almost required to get her to lose the attitude or destroy her shield
    I haven't yet. But if you're looking for body language threads, I'll recommend these two:

    One
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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Cody, your last paragraph in the OP sums it up perfectly.

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    Yeah, subtle / intelligent negs for me only.. especially in day / non-alcohol environment game!!
    I wanted to test a neg the other week just for testings sake... I used the one from The Game on a HB9 I saw at and approached after the gym. You know the one 'Cute Bugs Bunny Overbite....'

    It really didn't go down well! and I caught her a week later and she was still a bit pissed... (she doesn't have an overbite btw!).
    She accepted my apology though and I walked with her back to the street we both live on... (She lives with her bf - "loving and committed", and even though I tried a bit of bf destroyer - I figured I didnt want to overdo it ;-)

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    i deffinetly have to agree, negs are like a little cheat that is unnessisary for you to actualy succeed, they work well for guys with low self-esteem who can't bring themselves up to par, i beleive that teasing works far better and i only use negs on the b!tchiest girls (i call them out on their unfriendliness) though they do come in handy for amogging

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    The 'bringing down to your level' neg technique pretty much contradicts the alpha figure of which the pua community forces upon you, though in my opinion I love negging. It's just fun. I was doing it I realized even before I introduced myself to the pickup community. But what about those chicks, the ones with the Bitch Shield/slut barrier or even a highly strung 10? If we don't use negs to bring them to our level (as low as it may seem) and game them from there...is there any other way?

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    But what about those chicks, the ones with the Bitch Shield/slut barrier or even a highly strung 10? If we don't use negs to bring them to our level (as low as it may seem) and game them from there...is there any other way?

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    Default Re: Death to the Neg

    This post rocks. There needs to be a section on this forum where only guides like this can be posted. Every section on this forum is 90% questions from people like me but the section's description says "Find out how to do x here!" This post is great. Thanks.


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