Thereís no real good way to introduce this, so Iím just going to come out and say it.
I believe that Indirect Game is Introductory Game, and Direct Game is Advanced Game. There are a lot of one-stop-shop guys who visit The Forums wanting indirect answers, and though they might work for the moment, itís a band aid that will eventually fall off. It doesnít solve the problem. Betas can learn Indirect Game, which is why itís appealing to so manyóand if I may be so bold to say why The Mystery Method ďoutshinesĒ Cocky-Funny, at least in part. However, only those who truly want it will become Alphas and work Direct Game.
Now what Iím not saying is that Direct Game is superior to Indirect. Both are great systems that work equally well at what they do, but I do think that Direct Gamers will always remain a select few. Thatís to be expected though, because we are the AMOGs. Alpha Male of the group.
Anyway, what Iím getting at is this: This is for Direct Gamers only. So I donít want to hear you bitching about how much you love negs and it always works for you. Great! But this is a different model entirely, so go study up on The Mystery Method and quit wasting your time reading this.
Alright, we good now? Cool.
I recently read an old post by Jack Bauer on the rules of direct game. The article called something to my attention that I felt compelled to relay and expand upon:
Or I should say stop INTENTIONALLY negging. Why? Letís think about it: You see a cute girl thatís too good for you, so you think of a neg to knock her down to your level. Stop. Wait a minute. Do you see what you just did there? Right from the get-go you accepted that she is of higher value than you, so you need to think of something to say that will bring her down to YOUR LEVEL??? WHAT THE fark IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!? Why donít you just drop your pants and show her your vagina. Give her your man card; itís not like youíll be needing it anymore.
What happened to your Alpha State of Mind? You are high value. You are important. If you need to cut her down in order to have a functional interaction, you have some serious Inner Game issues.
Who is the Alpha Male that you fill in when you ask yourself, ďWhat Would _______ Do?Ē William Wallace? Brad Pitt? George Clooney? For me it has always been Thomas Wayne (Bruceís dad. Heís a farking boss.) Alright, I know heís fictional and loaded off his ass, but the concept remains the same. If he walked into a place and saw a couple ladies he wanted to talk to, he would go talk to them. No hesitation; no thought. He is high value and has no need to tear others down. Most high value persons (i.e. celebrities, well educated, financially successful) actually build everyone around them up. They bring everyone else up to THEIR LEVEL.
ďBut Mr. One Thousand (or Cody, either or works,) what if it ends in a blow out?Ē
You either, A) Didnít do it right, which is okay. Practice makes perfect. Or, B) Give too many sh1ts about it. If they werenít cool with you something is wrong with them. Itís not your fault. You canít help that theyíre weirdies.
Instead of throwing rocks at the pedestal on top of which you placed the p*ssy, internalize the axiom that we all walk on level ground. If you are going to neg, do it because you simply mean what you are saying, not because youíre hiding ill intentions behind face value. Say you like her nails and ask if they are real because you like her nails and were wondering if they are real. Tell her she should wear her hair down more often because she looks better with her hair down.
Peace out. Youíre all rockstars.