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    Default The most important thing when approaching

    Hi guys,

    I was watching a workshop yesterday on approaching. The instructor gave the students solid openers.

    There were 2 models that were used as targets in the workshop. The models were really hot and although a safe environment I think that the students definitely felt the pressure.

    The students approached using the given openers but genreally came across as weak. The point is that everyone needs to know that a confident demeanour and body language is of paramount importance.

    Without this, the most brilliant openers will fail. I would go so far as to say that a confident PUA doesn't even need the opener, he would naturally lead the girl or set in the right direction and would be able to get away with much "riskier" escalations.

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    Default Re: The most important thing when approaching

    Very true my man, confidence and body language are essential to pickup.

    Overall its the main element we can always work on haha. Its the difference between approaching a set and not caring what they think of you, vs. wondering if they will like you and whether you'll succeed or fail.

    Thanks for the reminder, cheers man!

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    Default Re: The most important thing when approaching

    Just sifting through some old posts, and THIS ONE is deserving of a bump up.

    The "opener" itself means crap!
    It's all about how you present yourself that maters.
    It's not WHAT you say, but rather, HOW you say it / how you come across.

    Body language & confidence are the main keys. (I would also say FUN, even though some of my fellow friends here on the forums don't understand my "fun vibe"... or it just doesn't seem to fit them.)



    But the point it, quit looking for a magic line / magic opener... there ARE NONE! Just be different than every other schmuck hitting on girls.


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