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    Reyznove is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default All was well, then Flake????

    Can someone analyse my approach? Tell me where I can improve on. Don't hold anything back because I need to learn to not give a shit.

    One situation was:

    She was running to meet her friends in college, and I stopped her and said she looked exactly like that girl in twilight, (she does). She started laughing so hard and I just laughed along and went direct and said "Look, I thought you were really cute, had to stop and say hi.. blabla".

    She told me she was meeting her friends and I said playfully "Let me guess, Jacob and Edward?" *Twilight joke* I also gave a time constraint saying that I had to go meet a friend for lunch soon. So we were walking to her friends table and I was being polite and acknowledging her friends, and including them in the conversation. I kept it light and fun and i broke rapport at a peak. I said "I gotta go get my lunch but before I do, we should keep in contact. What is ur #?" and i jet.

    I texted her later saying "You should definitely run around campus more".
    HB: "ahah why?"
    Me: if u didnt, this awesome asian guy wouldnt have approached you today right?"
    HB texted back with a photo, she was giving me the finger.

    I don't understand. It was fun vibes all around when I met her. When I texted, she gave me one liners and that photo of her flicking me off. I tried to not take this personally and just texted "cute " and she hasnt replied since. That was 2 days ago. Did she just tell me to Fuck off??

    Any help at all would be appreciated.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: All was well, then Flake????

    Is this girl also asian as well?

    One thing I always try do, and it's not always so easy when your under time pressure, is get the absolute essential intelligence on her asap. Does she have a boyfriend? That is the big one. This girl could have a boyfriend? If you find out that stuff you dont need to waste time walking her to her table or wondering about why she hasn't texted.

    You're also using 'cute' a lot. Snap out of using that rubbish unless your describing a baby or fluffy dog walking by. You don't need to be a bastard but can be a little cheeky and negative to a girl like that. Not everything she does is cute (she gave you the bird) and she has no idea you are awesome yet. Saying your awesome devalues you completely unless you know them better or can provide evidence or mystery you are awesome at something. 1st text: 'I'm going for a ride on my new motorbike tonight at twilight, come for a ride and feel the wind flow through your mind' that is awesome.

    She was running late to meet her friends, expect she will be late in texting you but my gut feeling is she is looking for more than 'cute'.

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    Reyznove is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: All was well, then Flake????

    Thanks for being absolutely honest. No BS Just what I need. and this girl is caucasian.

    I definitely shouldn't have said I was awesome. It was originally intended as a light joke, but yeah I guess it didn't work.

    What would you do to approach a girl during the day? What do you say to show your intentions?

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    Default Re: All was well, then Flake????

    Just approaching is showing intent and confidence. The main thing for me is to approach girls that I'm likely to actually have a chance with so I tend to only waste time on girls I could potentially see myself with. This is not meant to be racist, because I like Asians a lot, but many Caucasian girls simply don't go for Asian men. Thats not to say don't approach them but it's going to be harder work. For example an Asian girl would probably never send you a pic of herself giving you the finger, she would send a pic of her holding up two fingers in a peace pose. You know what I'm talking about.

    Ive also never hesitated to just ask girls out on the spot. 'What are you doing tonight? Let's dance.'

    Your approach actually seemed ok. You had the running and twilight hooks. This girl could be a little rascal, could have a BF, could be in pmt. Try bump into her around campus or try one last 'let's go out' text. Or respond full on aggressively sexual to her finger pic. 'ooh naughty girl, let's see two fingers' or 'I can suck on your finger, sure, but I'd rather go down on you for an hour'. Then you'll very quickly find out if she's telling you to fark off or not.


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