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    dirtymitts is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with girl from weekend

    So I've known this girl for a few weeks, I never text her but everytime we get together with mutual friends we start flirting like it our job. Last friday we both got pretty drunk and she told me she liked me, but she was also having feelings for another guy. Needless to say she still went home with me. The next day we were all flirty again then that night I got pretty blitzed and I believe we started talking about who she liked again. That next day she invited me to the lake but I didn't know if I messed anything up from the night before, so I kept my distance, and acted like nothing happened. She texted me that night and told me she was sorry for putting me through shit that weekend, I brushed it off and said not to worry about it. Did I mess up my chance here?

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from weekend

    I'm not sure what chances you messed up. When you write "she still went home with me." Did you to have sex? What I will share, is from my experience, if she is an "Easy Lover", and has different guys she is dating/having sex with. Try your best not to get emotionally involved. Some girls are emotion driven, not logical driven. They act in the now, and do what seems like a good idea at the time. Not thinking about the future.

    Maybe slow things down, and test her. Poke around and see if she is sleeping around. If she is there is nothing wrong with that, at least you know you can be bed buddies, but I wouldn't pursue a relationship with her.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from weekend

    We did fool around but the problems with alcohol consumption kicked in. I know I've probably already lost control of the situation as I have put her on a pedastal in my mind already. She definitely is not the type to sleep around, her friend told me she hasn't had sex in a ridiculous amount of time. I'm trying a Freeze Out now to see if that has any effect on the situation.

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    Default Re: Need help with girl from weekend

    As long as she's hitting u up to chill, then call her back as long as you keep the 2 to 3 ratiO where for every three good things she does you give her two. Next time you meet up build rapport and use Kino in a playful way. That's Wat I woUld do homie.


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