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    Default i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    hi there eveyone. Well this is my first thread.
    Can someone help me please? Ok well im hoping to go on vacation in august with my family and i usually stay in the same hotel.
    I would like to think that i get on with the staff very well. There is someone who works there in particular that im very attracted to. I have spoken to her a few times. Her office is just outside the gym and so i see her often and stop to talk to her. I friended her on facebook for a while but she is very busy to talk and so i deleted her.
    Everytime i speak to her i get this unusual quick, exciting pounding feeling in my heart, which i dont get when i talk to other girls. I want to ask her out if i see her this year but the only problem is she is about six years older than me, she knows my parents better than she knows me and talks to them often there and so it would feel awkward if i asked her out. She has an upper management position in this hotel, im not sure what her actual orientation is and i have heard around that she has trust issues with men. Also i asked her friend out a few years ago and she turned me down, and she is much more attractive than her friend is and so i feel she will almost guarantee to do the same.
    It bothers me because when i usally want to do something, nothing stops me i just go and do it. But i feel that the reasons mentioned are what is holding me back.
    I feel like a jerk saying this but i would love to get her in bed and have many times fantasized about her. But mostly i would love to go out on a date with her, get to know her better and if a relationship blossoms out of it- great!!
    So can you help me please? Im open to any opinions or criticisms.

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    Default Re: i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    Tricky one man. You're there for a short time, you're staying at the hotel she works at (with your parents), are sort of infatuated by her and are younger than her. To get her interested she either has to like the possibility of a fling with a younger man or you need to have maturity beyond your age. If she has trust issues she may not like you trying to act older. I would somehow seed her up to the idea of a fling with you. Bring back her own youthful memories to get her out of her busy career mentality. That won't be an easy switch to turn on. If you are confident and handsome it will be easier. Maybe avoid the idea of relationships and romance and have some realistic fun with her. Get her talking about her youth and into a risk taking attitude and make it so she decides to give it a go with you rather than you asking. She's likely used to taking charge in her job so being younger you may not be able to dominate that side of things but remember inside every mature power management women is still a little girl that mostly crave the same thing. Your youth can be worked to your advantage if you can provide yourself as a fantasy 'no complexity' option. Whichever way it will be excellent practice and experience to try someone like that. You have nothing to loose. If she does reject you, stay content and keep seeding her mind: 'I'm at my peak sexually and so are you', 'you must have fantasized about a younger fit bodied man yes?', 'what are you going to do, wait until some bald business men with a hairy back marries you?', 'heres to you Mrs Robinson'. I dont know whatever comes to your mind that would be suitable for her. Don't act too dissapointed if she does reject you, she may contemplate it later, especially if there are no men in her life right now and you have a take it or leave it attitude. Ignore all your emotional feelings and get the little horny girl inside of her back out to play.

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    Default Re: i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    thanks for your advice. I have two months to get my act together and think up a strategy. I sense that maybe i have a chance with her because last year while i was talking to her, i teased that i was going to ask her out. I walked a bit closer to her and said 'ummmm'' and then after a short pause i said ''nevermind'' and then i walked away. But in reflecting i noticed that in between this pause her face seemed to light up. Is this a good sign?

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    Default Re: i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    Yes obviously good sign, especially if that original approach was semi sarcastic and not awkward. Hope it goes well.

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    Default Re: i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    So I guess ur gonna be on a vacation with your parents? U can use that to relate to her on a different time in her life, find a way to tease about it, did u take many vacations with your folks when u were a kid?
    -I'm not saying your a kid man, but saying anytime u can relate to a girls past, it can work very well. Or u can ask, what led u to work here? Did u get a degree in hospitality/business? Chances are she got something along those lines, and you'll have her reflecting onto a different time in her life, maybe some fun college stuff.
    Find a commonality in the convo there, hash it out a bit, then string back to the current frame- if u have something fun planned- a hike, concert, festival, whatever, asks what she knows about it- this could lead to a date.

    I've dated several older girls in my life, and all were just fun, casual flings. We had a lot of fun and with each of them I kept her interest by being dominant/decisive, but at the same time just going out with spontaneity and fun

    For instance my gf I had about 6 months last year was 5 years older than me, and a career minded girl who was a teacher. So she was mature in that respect, but she was pretty wild off the clock! She just wanted to have fun and someone to rely on a bit, and I could play the part. She always joked about older guys who are lame, just wanna settle down, or are too nice. Anyways tho, I hooked her all from asking her to play pool with me and a friend at a bar one night, then we sorta hit it off.

    She even told me that night 'i don't date guys under 30' or something, but I basically just turned the cheek to that and kept up the attraction.

    So I've ranted enough, just saying find a common hook point, tease her a little, and ask her to do something fun. Don't think about the outcome, live in the moment, and see where it can go. Good luck man!

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    Default Re: i want to ask a woman out from a hotel i usually stay in

    oops, guys i just had a spur of the moment and i sent her a message that said ''So today is national kiss day. kiss, kiss.'' and then i sent her this topless picture of me.
    did i make a mistake? it sounded like a good idea at the time. Im not sure if she is even straight, she gives off a lesbian vibe sometimes. Anyways,she hasnt responded yet.
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