Push and Pull - Number 1 rule of seduction
PUAs, AFCs and 'Naturals' alike,
When you really want to get good at women, or are beginning to get good with women then you will realise one thing. The Push / Pull Theory is fucking gold. It is the cheese in cheesecake, it is the cheese on a cheese burger, it is the oceans that give this planet life. True it is not the only technique and shouldn't be the only thing you use, but for crying out loud, it is one of the best!
The fact is you can't create sexual chemistry without Push/Pull being used at some point. It just can't happen. Banter is a form of push/pull, teasing is a form of push/pull as well as flirting. For those of you that are unfortunate enough not to have heard of push/pull, then it is merely a conversational tool to raise attraction and heat within a conversation.
The idea behind this concept is that we repel what is forced upon us and chase what is found to run from us. It is this theory that describes why the push/pull technique works. You start off buy first showing disinterest in the chosen person. This will first of all create a Pull because you have chosen to speak to that person but then you will Push by showing disinterest. Next you will want to pull back in. You would do this by demonstrating you are interested in something they are wearing for example. Then to push them back you would suggest this something they're wearing is nice but that they would suit something a little more classy.etc.
The Push/Pull technique works, because people chase what repels them. We must have all been there when someone doesn't want to speak to us. Suddenly we feel slightly empty inside. As if we need to get their attention. And when we do get their attention, we feel extra special. Well this is this technique in practise.
So to fully use this technique, go out now and push/pull until you finally reach a good balance between the two.
P.S. As hitch said "You go the 90, let her come the 10"
Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.