Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 1,263, Level: 20
    Level completed: 63%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2011
    Location
    Southampton
    Posts
    87
    Points
    1,263
    Level
    20
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    60

    Default Push and Pull - Number 1 rule of seduction

    PUAs, AFCs and 'Naturals' alike,

    When you really want to get good at women, or are beginning to get good with women then you will realise one thing. The Push / Pull Theory is fucking gold. It is the cheese in cheesecake, it is the cheese on a cheese burger, it is the oceans that give this planet life. True it is not the only technique and shouldn't be the only thing you use, but for crying out loud, it is one of the best!

    The fact is you can't create sexual chemistry without Push/Pull being used at some point. It just can't happen. Banter is a form of push/pull, teasing is a form of push/pull as well as flirting. For those of you that are unfortunate enough not to have heard of push/pull, then it is merely a conversational tool to raise attraction and heat within a conversation.

    The idea behind this concept is that we repel what is forced upon us and chase what is found to run from us. It is this theory that describes why the push/pull technique works. You start off buy first showing disinterest in the chosen person. This will first of all create a Pull because you have chosen to speak to that person but then you will Push by showing disinterest. Next you will want to pull back in. You would do this by demonstrating you are interested in something they are wearing for example. Then to push them back you would suggest this something they're wearing is nice but that they would suit something a little more classy.etc.

    The Push/Pull technique works, because people chase what repels them. We must have all been there when someone doesn't want to speak to us. Suddenly we feel slightly empty inside. As if we need to get their attention. And when we do get their attention, we feel extra special. Well this is this technique in practise.

    So to fully use this technique, go out now and push/pull until you finally reach a good balance between the two.

    Finchy x

    P.S. As hitch said "You go the 90, let her come the 10"
    Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.

  2. #2
    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 1,263, Level: 20
    Level completed: 63%, Points required for next Level: 37
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Sep 2011
    Location
    Southampton
    Posts
    87
    Points
    1,263
    Level
    20
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    60

    Default Re: Push and Pull - Number 1 rule of seduction

    The example I gave may come off a tad cringy or non effective. But the idea of the technique is described above. So make you're own material based on it and use it! All the best
    Work hard, Play hard players! Oh and Man up, girls like men.

  3. #3
    surferdude is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 933, Level: 17
    Level completed: 33%, Points required for next Level: 67
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    St. John's, Newfoundland
    Posts
    144
    Points
    933
    Level
    17
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    49

    Default Re: Push and Pull - Number 1 rule of seduction

    Great post Finchy. Thanks for the read.

  4. #4
    The-Pos is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 141, Level: 2
    Level completed: 82%, Points required for next Level: 9
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2012
    Location
    Johannesburg
    Posts
    16
    Points
    141
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    11

    Default Re: Push and Pull - Number 1 rule of seduction

    Finchy

    Great post just spent the past 30mins searchin for an in depth explanation of the technique.!

    Thanks


Similar Threads

  1. The Dynamics of Push / Pull
    By Bill Preston in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-17-2012, 09:43 AM
  2. Push and pull convo
    By racK_bar in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 03-05-2012, 02:21 AM
  3. Too much push, not enough pull
    By gosteelersgo in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 07-05-2011, 06:17 PM
  4. PUSH PULL
    By chulin in forum Common Pick Up Terms
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 12-01-2010, 12:36 AM
  5. The best push pull I have ever done
    By Salaami in forum Field Reports
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 08-06-2010, 07:26 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com