About monuth ago I decided to create system that will allow me to guess a type of a girl by her look. Idea came when I read conversational mastery for TJI. Brian said: "I’ve even walked up to women who seemed to be SB’s and said, “you are out of control, you’re coming with me,” and threw them over my shoulder". I knew that his guess was based on his experience. Also, I have seen that every type of a girl on the Vin's picture reminds me on a girl whose type I know. Those two things make me try to build this system. I hope that you will give it a try at tell me your opinion. But be aware it works best with girls you are seeing for first time in your life because knowing something more about that person can affect your perception.
Tester vs. iNvestor
- Note: I used what is said in "Approaching Without Rejection" but without thing about compliment (it is effective with with strong eye contact only)
The easiest way to gauge whether a woman is a Tester or iNvestor is to give her strong eye contact. If she seems a bit uncomfortable and looks away quickly as if she’s distracted, she is a Tester. If she’s an iNvestor, she will respond with eye contact and seem genuinely flattered.
Denier vs. Justifier and Realist vs. Idealist
First, you will need to focus on her eyes only (note: if she wears sun glasses you will never be able to determine any of those two lines properly). You will need to decide are the eyes (or look) soft or cold.
Second, you will need to focus on her whole face and put soft and cold in the back of your mind. Give the same intensity of focus on every part of her face. You would need to decide which impression it leaves the most: impression of a soft person or impression of a firm person.
Before we continue I would need to exaplain the background of this.
I have realised that we can split types by illogical and logical cobination of first two lines. From my (and probably most of the mens) perspective it is more logical "dating multiple guys and justifying sex" or "looking for a guy who has potential of being Mr. Right and denying sex" than "dating multiple guy and denying sex" or "looking for a guy who has potential of being Mr. Right and and justifying sex".
So we have:
- Illogical types: TDI TDR NJI NJR
- Logical types: TJI TJR NDI NDR
Now, lets go back. If you have correct foucus, wou won't have too much problems determining cold and warm but you may have serious problems determining firm and soft. It is because eyes as dominant part of the face gives you a hard time. But, good thing, it only happens with illogical types.
While illogical types has good combination of soft, frim, cold and warm, illogica hasn't. By good combination I mean: "warm+soft" and "cold+firm". That's what cause problems or help with determining firm and soft.
- TDI - Turn-Cold-Soft
- TDR - Turn-Warm-Firm
- NJI - Hold-Cold-Soft
- NJR - Hold-Warm-Firm
- TJI - Turn-Warm-Soft
- TJR - Turn-Cold-Firm
- NDI - Hold-Warm-Soft
- NDR - Hold-Cold-Firm
For those that may be confused by the lingo - check out pandoras box <- link.