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    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    Hey guys,

    It grows apparent with each day just how many people have or feel they have aa. It is funny because I was once one of those people and it's amazing at just how fast I grew out of it. There is a secret that I will share with you in a moment that gave me that click ureka moment. But before then, what is AA? Well it can be defined as the inability or lack of confidence to approach a stranger. But then that is far too broad. The fact is, AA encompasses absolutely everything to do with you, the situation, the person in question and everything else that affects an approach. With this, it may now seem like you just can't win. You can't possibly control so many details. You can try, but you will just become a husk of a man with no clue on how to just live in the moment anymore. And that is the secret to beating AA. Living in the moment.

    Living in the moment is the major key to beating AA because once you have realised you can't control all those minor details, then you begin to understand that the only thing left for you is to accept those small details. And to accept them is to live in the moment. The fact is, life is so much more interesting and exciting when our environment changes. It gives us a challenge, a mission, something for us to conquer. And when we conquer it, we feel that one step closer to success. This is how experience in the field is bred, through these tiny clusters of victories. So if you want to beat AA, accept you can't control the environment, but accept that if you just approach even one person a day, then you will build up these tiny victories which will one day create the best self you can ever be.

    So the secret is to live in the moment. And the technique is to approach!

    I used to be scared of approaching anyone because I feared what they would say to me. After learning many techniques to do with the game and psychological tricks I learnt to live in the moment. That is what the game led me to, and since then I can approach literally anyone! Without fail, and with this new found confidence, I can get a number and kiss close with ease and with a little effort, a fuck close .

    Please contact me with any problems you may have and i'll personally get back to you with a solution or close enough to it. Hope this helps!

    Finchy x
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    surferdude is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    Respect. Living in the moment is definitely a good way to frame how you look at life. I need to do more of this. I have had a big problem with aa over the last couple years, usually hooking up with girls that either approached me first or where I "lucked" out. I need to start approaching at least one girl a day until the response she gives me just doesn't doesn't affect how I view myself.

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    Finchy is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    Quote Originally Posted by surferdude View Post
    Respect. Living in the moment is definitely a good way to frame how you look at life. I need to do more of this. I have had a big problem with aa over the last couple years, usually hooking up with girls that either approached me first or where I "lucked" out. I need to start approaching at least one girl a day until the response she gives me just doesn't doesn't affect how I view myself.
    You got it buddy! It sure isn't the only thing to look into. But i'm sure it will open up your mind to other ways of dealing with AA

    Finchy x
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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    Good post man, it's true different situations appear everyday, just gotta live in the moment with it a bit.

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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    I don't have that much of a problem with Approach Anxiety anymore, but I have a horrible problem with closing.
    Is there such a thing as close anxiety?

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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    I hear ya on that one, I've had a good amount of issues closing too. When u get better with approach after approach, then u don't close well what's the point lol. Besides good practice.
    My problems have been either 'rushing' the close, and then texting the girl turns out to a stale number, or blurred number.. or I just don't close at all for watever reason. I think its good tov open the idea for hanging out and getting the girl to bring it up, then pull out your phone. Or look up some MM stuff about it, whitedragon made a good point about closing with pictures, and also kinos Number Close post on here. That might help out a bit.
    Game on

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    Default Re: Got Approach Anxiety? Here is how to tear it a new A$$hole

    is it a good idea to approach a girl when she's on the phone? most cute girls who isn't with a guy is always on the phone somehow. how would you approach someone like that?


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