Goes like diss.
Talking blah blah, over text usually. Ya so what are you up to. If she says nothing or bored then you know she wants to chill. But don't try. Reply with nice. She'll be expecting you to ask her out here, don't...
you wait like an hour at least! and then you either dhv yourself about not having anything to do.
example: ya the girls want me to go party tonight but idk, i have to work at 6 tommorow. is it gay if guys wear makeup?
just really drag the fuck out of it, then be like ya well i could use a female opinion on something (credit to style) wanna go for a little drive? Alternatively , just call her like 2 hours later.
easy peazy lemon squeezy, you don't need comfort or any of that shit, because you're not staying out late ( you have work!!!). So you can just go for it.