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    Default The power of music

    The power of Music

    Ever heard of a lawyer, plumber, sales assistant or even a bouncer with true groupies? No. Ever heard of rock star with groupies? Of course! Goes with the territory!

    Ok part of this thread is boastful part of it I hope will help you all out there.*

    I play in 2 full time bands and another band as a side project. It's not my profession. It's a hobby, although I earn some cash from it. I also do art occasionally in my sparetime, mostly painting and sculpture. My profession (which is quite good) and my artistic talents all pale into insignificance compared with music when it comes to attracting girls.

    I never learnt music to pickup girls and most gigs I hardly talk to that many girls because I have gear to pack up end of the night and I'm playing while others are mingling - but being the frontman of the band is an exceptionally powerful thing. I have always known this but I was acutely reminded of it's power today and why I thought should share.

    This week I tried contacting some girls from an online dating site I had not used before. It doesn't mention anywhere on my profile I play music, just that im into it. I wrote to a couple of girls and a few wrote to me. Just as it would be in reverse, the girls chasing me I was less interested in. Go figure. A lot of the 'to be or not to be' happened almost straight away confirming my thoughts that you have to make a good first impression.*

    One girl I wrote to though was particularly hard work from the get go. She was a HB9 and I knew she was confident of her looks not only by her battery of good happy photos but the style in which they were done. I used my hard assed superbabe tactics on her. No success. She would not write anything more than one word for anything I wrote. I kept my cool, didn't say too much either and didn't write to her for a few days. In fact I assumed by her behavior she was already getting on well with someone else she was so distant, so I didn't want to become another drag in her inbox.*

    Today though I wanted to see how powerful being in a band was upfront, as usually I reveal that to someone important much later on, like as a surprise on a date. I messaged her 'btw I play in a couple of bands in town, you should come check us out sometime'. I was not going to waste my time asking this girl out or even for a number based on her lack luster replies. Immediately she messages back 'sounds interesting, I want to come!'

    Wow I went from single word sporadic messages like 'oh' to exclamation marks, 'interesting' and 'I want'. In fact she actually said 'i want to come' I messaged the other girls the same thing and they followed suit with replies coming in like fan mail. The nerdier girls started feverishly shoeing symptoms of not being cool enough, the hotter girls suddenly were asking me the questions. I hadn't even played a note! I could have been lying for all they knew! Of course I could follow up with any technical question they asked but it just reconfirmed how important what you do is for a girl and it's not all about money, magical joke openers, mind tricks or muscles - it's also about your ability to entertain and be technically good at something. What is your Social Status? What are you good at? What real tricks can you do? Flaunt it.

    A musician is doing something very sensual and primordial by getting up in front of an audience - it's the ultimate in fun, confident and even risky leadership. Rock n roll is the ultimately in 'i don't give a fark attitude'. That simple. You could be a DJ, a rapper, a violinist it's all entertainment as long as it has brilliance and attitude - the cooler the better. I've never been that smart, that good looking, that rich and probably not that funny - but through my talents and creativity I have at least become cool. It's the best of all, like a gangly teenage girl that blossoms unexpectedly into a beautiful woman.

    I recommend learning an instrument or something to do with entertainment and using it to your advantage. I recommend using music as a way to switch on woman even if you don't play anything and I highly recommend learning how to be cool because most of us are cooler than we probably think. Be confident and be cool. Always be closing.

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    Default Re: The power of music

    I learned piano as a kid but fell out of it. It wasn't really my thing. I'd like to learn guitar because of how adaptable an instrument it truly is. (Your home, campfires, anywhere)
    The guitar will help serve as a fun tool to add attraction.

    A friend of mine usually makes up songs as he plays to people in the room. It's really funny because he has a lot of flow with his lyrics.
    Thanks for the post.

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    Default Re: The power of music

    Whitedragon - I read your advice all the time and it's always spot on. I never realized we shared this much in common. I too am a musician - singer, guitarist, bassist, a little drums, some keyboard. In high school I was the frontman for our band, I was confident enough to go up there and rock the fark out but I was still a self-loathing mess off stage.

    You're completely right about attracting chicks. It's crazy. No music, just looks/personality alone I do alright at attracting HB6's. But then add in music, hot damn, I've got 8 and 9s up on my d. Not even just playing in a band. Just being able to sing and play acoustic guitar gets 'em too.

    One day I was really stoned with my best mate and I had a revelation - rock is life. One, the music - devote yourself to it, play in a band, rock out, have a good time. But two, the attitude. On or off stage. Rock n roll is about doing everything with a little flair. With energy, with pep in your step. And all those who don't like it can just go ahead and fark off. That's how I try to live my life now. Like a rock star. And when you live like a rock star the chicks will come.

    Picking up an instrument will definitely help you get girls. But I think it'd be better to cultivate your true passion. If you love music, sure, play the guitar. But if you don't, you can't force it. Maybe you're an athlete? A writer? A poet? Just find your passion, give it your all, because you know it's the right thing to do for YOURSELF. And then the girls will come. They can't stay away. Good post man.

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    Default Re: The power of music

    Good points about this stuff. Ill drop in and say its true, mainly in the sense of havin a hobby/passion that let's u be free, unhibited, to express yourself or just enjoy, watever, is surely attractive to girls. Having sometin u just fuckin luv to do keeps u sane ha.
    I've always noticed it, even been a little jealous of musicians b4 but not bad. Its just bein able to rock, soul, play the strings watever is cool. I'm actually tryin to learn piano and teachin myself beats on the laptop. I always was into freestyle and rhyming, but want to know music more. It'll take me some real, devoted, time.. but glad to do it. I work a web support kinda job long hours, in fewer days, then I have time for that. I sure don't have many groupies for sittin and clickin haha.

    Good post wd.. overall I think its about havin a talent that ur free with which attracts women. It reminds me of mystery saying how to talk with high energy about watever ur into, like with him with the magic, and 'dungeons and dragons' or watever. If ur really into something, and know a lot about it, that's a highlight in ur personality.

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    Default Re: The power of music

    Cheers guys, maybe we should start a PUA band and write songs with subliminal attraction messages

    It's also about drama - people love drama and I don't mean bad drama, like from a woman, but dramatic ways of describing something, dramatic ways of expressing yourself, dramatic ways of asking a girl out. People are bored in their everyday lives so take people into the 'dreamtime', onto the 'stage' and they will often also play the part.

    Sonny - 'hey come back to my apartment, I'll sing you a song on one of my guitars'. I have used that so much in my life and never been rejected. After you finish the song they are powerless and all I have to do is start kissing them.

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    Default Re: The power of music

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    It's also about drama - people love drama and I don't mean bad drama, like from a woman, but dramatic ways of describing something, dramatic ways of expressing yourself, dramatic ways of asking a girl out. People are bored in their everyday lives so take people into the 'dreamtime', onto the 'stage' and they will often also play the part.
    Exactly - rock is life dude. Take everyday life and make it your stage. Then put on a bomb ass show. Totally feel ya dude. And good call man, thanks. Time for me to start walkin the walk. Rockin the rock. Yeee

    One love, fellas.


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