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    Default Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    Hey so I go to the beach a lot but am usually too chicken sh1t to say anything to any of the girls there. I'm in really good shape I work out a lot and get checked out, but never make any attempts.

    Do u guys know any simple wity responses to a girl walking by who obviously checks you out? My goal is to try and get her to stop so i have a chance to talk to her.

    Anyone know any good openers for girls laying out getting a tan? I don't want to annoy them by disturbing their relaxation.

    Or how about any openers for girls at the water edge just getting their toes wet?

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    dude.. just go for it.. it's not about openers.. it's about talking to the fking girls.. they will talk back.. check the signs.. if u say u get checked out by girls then u have preselection..check the signs again.. read read read.. use material.. and u will succeded .. have fun

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    'Hey have u seen my pet lobster?! He was wearing a green and blue spiked collar, snapped off the leash and went missing..'

    That would be making up some stupid shit to break the ice (ha sorta), but that's the point, and that's all u gotta do when the girls already scopin u, id say man.
    I just made that up while zonin at work here so if it sucks my bad haha.

    Anything u got to open, is good if u can say it right, then see what she says, maybe a little Fluff talk, and work on progressing from there.

    Hope that helps a little go get em..

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    The lobster opener is actually pretty funny. I'm gunna use that once we start summer weather.

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    Haha, yea its somethin to 'crack it open' a bit

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    haha i like that one thanks, i need to work on getting over my aa so im making it a goal to talk to at least 3 girls whenever im out. ill be posting my experiences for criticism.

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    If the girl is checking you out then half the battle is won, just make conversation. Make sure you don't compliment them, make them work for it.

    Make yourself look like the prize. I suggest you make them qualify themselves, and maybe throw a neg in there. You'll have her eating out of your palm.

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    Hey, FauxPas here. Just off the cuff, 'you know...you get better tanning rays if you face the other way, Typically I face the other way with opposing arm and leg in the air!' Maybe for the girls with their toes in the sand at the waters edge, 'you better careful! I just saw a shark a second ago!' Naynaybooboo these may not be the home runs, but they're just quick little openers I came up with heading home. I'm sure some of the other guys have some real gems like Infrared's. Very good sir, very good. Good luck, and positive vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    you know its funny I came across your post. I am also a muscular guy, I have my niples pierced, and am by traditional standards pretty hot. But I always had Approach Anxiety. It goes back to grade school before I was so hot. Anyways, so regardless of good looks and good dressing I have always felt so nervous about women. I have been studying pick up for 2 years now and implementing it where I can but the anxiety remains. Recently though I went to NYC. The change of environment really allowed me to come out of my shell. Since it was a different scene I somehow felt comfortable approaching people and starting conversations. I pretty much spent the whole time there talking with strangers. It was amazing. I realized that if you approach someone and are friendly they will generally be friendly back. So there is really nothing to be afraid of! And if you use humor, they are going to laugh and joke with you too! People will always reflect what you portray. So if you seem nervous unsure doubtful anxiious, they will feel the same way. What it comes down to is finding a few openers that work for you. Not too many, not a whole page. But a couple canned openers that can be applied to a variety of situations. Youll need like 3 just in case one or two dont seem to be the best one for the situation. And just approach as many girls as you can when doing it. In settings like the beach its harder, they are advanced, I mean there is little clothing, high sexuality etc. So what you need to do here is seem like your doing something other than looking for someone to talk to. If you were walking on the street itd be perfect because you can be walking somewhere and look like your on your way there. But at the beach obviously your there to just chill. I recommend relaxing, seeming like your having a good time, hanging out in the water. And anyone in proximity who you see just open with the opener. If they dont automatically turn to leave, go into a script/game of some sort. NYC really got my ball rolling. Since coming back I have just kept on opening women and commencing to joke witht hem and see where the conversation goes. If they are too busy I move on. If they have the time to talk I go right into a game andkeep joking and building rapport then eventually I say I have to leave and cut the conversation short before it ends and say lets finish later and get their number. Easy breezy. You should try to get the ball rolling before putting so much emphasis on advanced locations like the beach though man. Dont be too hard on yourself. If your not ZEN about this it may not work fory ou. You have to be able to do it the easy way. Thats what zen buddhism is all about, just taking it fuckin easy. Why? Because thats what works best.

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    Default Re: Any successful openers for the beach ladies!?

    I go to the beach sometimes with my friend/wing man and what we do is bring a soccer ball with us and walk down the beach, and when we see a pair of 2 girls walking, which there always is, we just pass the ball to them. They have to pass the ball back then we walk up and start conversation. You don't really need an opener on the beach, just make it look like you're there to have a good time.


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