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Thread: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    Quote Originally Posted by llantaeusll View Post
    I used your opener and have been getting responses left and right. Then I realized I needed something to strong so I came up with:
    "Well now that I got your attention, I will get straight to the point. I am not gonna bored you with the same ol autopilot conversations on here. Like "how you doing" "Wats going on" and blah blah blah. So here is what I suggest, you give me your number we talk, see how things go. If things go well, then we keep on talking and if they don't then we just delete and go on about our business."

    So far so good. Maybe I am just picking the right girls idk. Just thought I would add my 2 cents in to see what yall thought.
    I thoroughly recommend against this approach. Upfront you are describing lame approaches and trying to use that as a comparison as if you are not like that but not actually describing who you are as an advertised self promotion. You are ending with the possibility of it not working out and not giving her any clear attractive choice. You take a paragraph basically to ask for her number and no reason why she should give it to you. Ironically you are describing not giving her an autopilot introduction and then actually doing exactly that. Your trying to convince the fish onto the hook without any bait.

    Up front say hello to her using her name or handle with an exclamation mark or smiley symbol and introduce yourself with great virtues no girl can reject: 'Hi Jane! I am a smart, handsome, happy guy who is passionate about the full spectrum of good living and I have a smile that you could sail on. I'd like to get to know you. Have a great day!'. Saying her name involves her straight away and means you aren't writing to yourself. Describing your virtues gives her an attractive offer that she has to accept on principle (because every girl wants a smart handsome man!). Describing how great you are shows your confidence, clear leadership vision and strength. Saying one sharp poetic thing about your features 'i have a smile you could sail on' 'darkish hair like a moonlight night' 'diamond eyes that sparkle in the sun' confirms you are smart, creative and passionate. It describes good genes. It presents a unique enticing physical offer coupled with your virtues. Saying you want to get to know her states very clearly exactly what everyone on a dating site wants without pressuring her into a formal choice. Its simply saying what you want as a start because you do not know her yet and are not going to waste valuable time thinking beyond simply getting to know her. Naturally a girl is going to write back if she too wants to get to know you and is doing so on her own accord because you have not actually asked for anything directly. You are encouraging her to be involved. In your profile mention you are seeking a naturally beautiful women. Saying 'wish you a good day!' with an exclamation mark or smiley symbol shows her your kindness, enthusiasm and thoughtfulness. It will turn her on to feel good making it far easier for her to want to respond positively. Add a wink symbol in there to show humor or just add that as a virtue if you want. A lot of guys try to be overly funny or cocky upfront and while girls certainly like a funny guy they much prefer a smart, handsome, adaptable, thoughtful guy. That represents something much stronger on an evolutionary level. Better to save teasing and jokes until you've got to know someone better. Don't disguise your intentions with online dating. Be confident in who you are and what you want.

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    I got you but I will say I have had much success with that approach. Honestly I would say I used that on 20 women and got at least 10 numbers. Then after talking with them, it cut down to around 7 I got with. With all that being said I go about it several different ways including the way you are talking about.

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    Lightbulb Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    HAHA. What website did you use? cause I got the same reply.

    The original which you are using didn't yield very good results for me so I adapted and it is a shorter opener. I get a 50/50 response now.

    Remember Online Dating is like texting except there is zero rapport and they don't know you.. Usually when texting you already opened the girl build rapport and she gave you her number.

    I suggest something short and sweet.. Maybe connect on something from her profile but NEVER start your reply with "so" or "Um" or any other AFC stuff. Be confident. I'm going to lie to you and say "Half The battle is Over"

    I would probably act like I am getting tons of replys on the site and make her feel unqualified to date me.

    maybe something along the lines of I had to revisit your profile to see who you were. No.. Thats bad..

    Sorry I couldn't be much help.

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    Post Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    How's okcupid ??? I made a profile there, but I don't really have a clue what girls like to see in a typical profile.

    So far i've had no luck.
    I started off disqualifying my need to post an about me by explaining how others are posting an about me to tell what they do, what they want, what they are looking for etc....

    Just be creative. I think this works because it says I don't care to wooooo you like my favorite open suggests (the one used above but modified and choped)

    Then I started with believe it or not "So let me just start off by saying I used to be a shy geeky guy with long hair and tried to pull off the Emo disturbed child look" which is true..then I tried to pull off gangster and added a sense of humor by saying I used to wear my dad or uncles pants and Micheal Jordan's shoes (can you see the humor?)

    Then I basically threw in growing up by mention my military like haircut.. I am an Air Force brat so I went off that and said It's not easy being one but I managed and then added qualities which qualify my self such "I am easy going and have a sense of humor.."

    Then I finished with over qualifying my self by saying if you think you have time for my oh so wonderful life or what ever be creative again.


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