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Thread: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

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    Default Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    I seen this very attractive girl on okcupid.com and I used this opener

    Me: Well I thought about it for a second...do I
    want to be Mr. Funny haha and try to make
    you laugh right off the bat. Nah! That would
    make me seem to goofy. Do I want to be Mr.
    Rico Suave and try to woo you to death! Nah
    that would make me seem way too
    serious...since this whole online thing is
    decided within the first 4 lines of the convo!

    I think I'll go traditional and say...hi =)

    Her: I like hi. Classic, simple, straight forward. But still adding personality with the intro. I approve

    What do I say next?

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    You successfully opened her, so congrats. Now u can talk to her about whatever.. why u got into online dating, something funny that happened to you recently, maybe try to find a commonality in your profiles. Just talk like you would to someone u know, and try to find an open thread, a question, opinion- something shell want to reply to. Keep the attraction goin and don't ask for her number yet. The convenience of online dating is u can take ur time to chat before escalating.. so keep the attraction goin for now bro.
    Hope that helps, cheers!

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    I dont like this open, I dont pick up girls online so im not good on the subject, If I did this seems nearly tl;dr.

    Even when you do get as good a reply as you could have hoped for, your still left asking where to go now?

    Anytime I open it envolves stating something that the conversation will naturally flow into.

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    How's okcupid ??? I made a profile there, but I don't really have a clue what girls like to see in a typical profile.

    So far i've had no luck.

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    I would ask a random but good question. Maybe like "What is your favorite color and why?" and then when she answers, make up some BS about it just to make the convo flood.

    On OKCupid funnily enough, one girl responded to me but said since we were "62% enemies" we shouldnt talk. I think thats the last time I went on there.
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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    A lot of luck is needed in online dating. Some girls can be really bitter, some hardly write a thing, others open, others desperately writing to you. If you have enough information on your profile and on hers you may even be able to ask her out straight away. Quite a few girls do that to me and I have to admit I quite like it and I've started doing it myself. They write 'would you like to have dinner?' or 'id like to get to know you better, do you want to meet up?'. I look at the profile and that is what really makes me decide. Most of the decision is going to come down to your photos and general compatibility. People can make fairly quick judgements on what someones generally going to be like from their profile, so often whatever you say needs to back up your profile and lead to a date fairly quickly. A lot depends on your age bracket and location too. You don't neccessarily need to keep a conversation going, you need to find the girls who are available and genuinely wanting to date, and willing to date YOU, otherwise your wasting valuable time.

    If a girl needs to chat more it's usually to confirm what she has seen in your profile but you can still move to meeting up quickly. In fact talking about the date is a great opener and conversation piece in itself. 'I know a really fantastic restaurant I'd like to take you on a date. This place has blah blah blah - are you interested? I promise you it will be fun'. If the offer is good and non threatening and they accept your profile, chances are they'll say yes. Usually 'persuasive' pickup lines are only needed for the few undecided girls or really insecure girls who you probably don't want to be wasting time with anyway.

    Some girls conversation is effortless but mostly they are lame and I suspect this is because they are sick of wasting time. I have the most efficiency and 'luck' by asking the girl out pretty rapidly with little conversation and irrelevant of whether she even writes back or not - just a few confirmations of who I am and indications that I will be a fun and serious opportunity. If a girl writes back something cheeky I will give her a message challenge but always ask out only after a few messages. Your trying to get into a girls pants ultimately, not applying to become a NASA astronaut.

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    Wow! This is gold! Can this work in face-to-face situations?

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    Quote Originally Posted by secnar View Post
    Wow! This is gold! Can this work in face-to-face situations?
    of course (30)
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    I used your opener and have been getting responses left and right. Then I realized I needed something to strong so I came up with:
    "Well now that I got your attention, I will get straight to the point. I am not gonna bored you with the same ol autopilot conversations on here. Like "how you doing" "Wats going on" and blah blah blah. So here is what I suggest, you give me your number we talk, see how things go. If things go well, then we keep on talking and if they don't then we just delete and go on about our business."

    So far so good. Maybe I am just picking the right girls idk. Just thought I would add my 2 cents in to see what yall thought.

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    Default Re: Great Online Opener... Now what do I say next?

    Interesting stuff. I'm going to put it to good use.


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