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    mikester is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default trouble with online conversation

    it's really hard for me to make good online chat conversation with girls, else the first time. my conversation usually dies down half 1/2 hr into the conversation. she doesn't seem interested. she finds other things to do besides talk to me. i need a map on how to approach this situation.

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    Default Re: trouble with online conversation

    Normally I go heavy on role playing starting with my original message. Eventually because I just naturally say random shit they laugh and play along. From there at some point I begin normal conversations and it goes from there.

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    Default Re: trouble with online conversation

    Most women are on a dating site to get a date not have conversation. My map is this:

    1 - send a quick hello, tell her I'd be interested in chatting, quickly summarize a few of my positive traits, maybe say something about her or her profile and add a smiley symbol.
    2 - if they don't write back I will then write something more engaging, funny, creative or boastful (in an exaggerated or humble way).
    3 - if she does write back I try to get a few hook points of interest even if that means resorting to picking up something from her profile. Or role playing as ridemyr1 suggested. If she doesn't provide any hooks for role playing I provide them. It could be anything wacky 'I was shopping today, I got everything so quick - I guess I should wear my superman outfit more often', or 'I'm just a poor farm boy from Uzbekistan but I know we could make a great couple'. Being sarcastic in this way allows you add value (you are obviously not a poor farm boy but could be the opposite - a rich city guy) or plant an emotional seed about being together 'we'd make a great couple'.
    4 - literally after only a couple of messages and irrelevant of whether they are opening up or not I ask them out on a date. I tell them they seem like they would be interesting to get to know further and I'd like the opportunity to meet for a coffee/drink or casual dinner. That i have a good feeling she is a great person and we could have fun. Theres no magic to it, no humor, nothing special, except I am sincerely stating my clear intentions I want to meet her for a date. Strike while the irons hot irrelevant of whether the messaging is going well or not. Girls loose interest fast, the ratio of women to men on dating sites is rigged in their favor. The easiest way to cut through all that competition is to ask them out in person fairly rapidly. It's difficult to build comfort on dating sites with everyone but by being sincere in the first post and asking them out on a date quickly you at least are unashamedly being 'honest' and honesty is something almost every girl on dating site states she wants.

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    Default Re: trouble with online conversation

    I had trouble finding a good way to initiate contact when I fist started doing online pick ups.

    But, I did a little google searching & stumbled across "b4utxther". I read through that "text game" guide & realized, a lot of the same principles can be applied to quick messages on facebook, chatrooms, dating sites. etc...

    I got tons of replies back!
    Then, I stuck with the "text game" idea throughout the next few exchanges, and literally within 5-6 messages women were giving me their phone numbers, without me even asking for them.

    Basically just keep the conversations fun & creative. Build excitement.
    Also, the push/pull techniques are just as effective through text / chat, as they are in real life.
    You can push her buttons & generate a lot of attraction that way.



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