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Thread: How To Get Over Shyness

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I have read up on some of mysteries "neg" techniques and I feel as if they would be effective during a set involving a 9-10. After all, these girls are so used to being fawned over that they are not used to their self confidence being called into question. negging may come off as immature in some situations, but in my experience, if done correctly, it shows the girl that you are not intimidated. Being new to the community, I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I am SUPER SHY!!! Like shyer than Shy Guy in Mario... but a switch flipped off in me in the past month that just said "Fuck it" just do it man. 10 years from now you will be better that you took that chance you are shy about now. You only live once, its easier said than done... I thought but until you do it, its a piece of cake!

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Quote Originally Posted by rdc View Post
    I made a crucial mistake; I thanked her for ringing my order up (D'oh!). Her eyes suddenly went from Hello! - to WTF do you want?

    Just thought I'd tell the story so others can learn from it too.
    Does anyone else think that's not a mistake? I think it just makes her look like a bitch...

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Start slow. start by just saying hi hows it going to girls and once you're comfortable with that, then step up your game!

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I really need someone to encourage me on approaching people. Someone to push me when we go out to the club/bar at night or during day game. I can't seem to push myself.

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Quote Originally Posted by DJ BK View Post
    I really need someone to encourage me on approaching people. Someone to push me when we go out to the club/bar at night or during day game. I can't seem to push myself.
    You could try to imagine that you're going to meet someone you haven't seen in a long time, and that you're happy to see them. It works for me. *shrugs*

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Do you have to ask for the number with every approach? What if you work out at a gym and see her all the time, can you just introduce yourself and ask later?

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I"m terrible at talking to women and I'm extremely shy. I just dont know what to say or how to be funny alot of the time if I'm able to gather the courage to say hi. The conversation dies pretty quickly. haha

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Shyness is a lack of practice at being confident

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    What help me get rid of my shyness was when I realized that I need a woman. And I had two choices, either pay for a prostitute or start talking to people. Girls included, there is not best feeling than when you are enjoying a night with a girl you seduced yourself! The pray is enjoy the most, when you go out and hunt her...to be honest she allows you catch her if you play the seduction game right that is!


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