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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Enjoyed reading this post and will certainly be reading it again and again opened my eyes for sure. No its about applying it and of course learning it

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    So I've tried this last night, and I felt great.
    I didn't Number Close, or kiss close, but I just had this charisma that went through the roof.
    my friend and I started out in a nightclub pretty shy, using crappy canned openers... wasn't working... so we decided to go completely natural. just embrace each situation. as we just went up to people, said, "hey, how's your night going? what's that drink?" it just felt right you know? after a few hours, we knew one in ten people in the club. wherever we'd go, we could high five that guy, wink at that girl, etc... it felt great.

    Just going out there for an ego boost won't hurt sometimes. We weren't disappointed at all not to have 'scored' or anything... we just had a great time with great people!
    Music, Girls, Anything else?

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    that is a really great post, thanks. u done a great job
    thank u

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Hi all,

    I'm new to this board and am here to try to help reduce my shyness. Any help would be good. I appreciate any information you may post. Also hope to meet more people here.

    Mercury.

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    You can't overcome your shyness unless you don't try to get over it.

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Hi,

    I am not ussually a shy guy and sometimes am confident when approaching women in the streets and in the malls (daytime), however in a nightclub I am awkward and not sure how to approach...

    Its not like I can easily strike up a conversation (because of the loud music). I also feel like I am invading women's space if I try and approach a group and I feel like the outsider...

    Basically what I am asking is how to approach confidently in a loud nightclub.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I'd like to explain something to the "shy people".

    What is shyness?
    Shyness is nothing else but a problem with "comfort zone".

    Guys, for you who are just starting out, your biggest obstacles are yourselves. Move your limits and get out of your comfort zone. It's just something in your brain that is holding you back and telling you... You are shy, you shouldnt approach or open up cause she might reject you.

    But think of logically, it's nothing more then a barrier in your head. You should just PUSH YOURSELF and YOUR COMFORT ZONE in every way possible. With time, it will become natural to do and say whatever you want once you realize it!

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    I think some of the best exercises to help shyness and getting out of your comfort zone and your head some of these exercises I learned:
    1. Stop fapping for 30 days
    2. Make eye contact with everyone and HOLD it. Most shy guys get in the habit of immediately looking away when someone looks at them. Don't be looking creepy though.
    3. give a smile at girls who look at you. You don't have to approach, simply make eye contact and smile. You'll be surprised at how many girls will smile back at you, some very positively, a clear indication they want to talk to you.
    4. After smiling, simply say hello. You don't have to converse with them, just make eye contact, smile and say hi.

    Do these steps slowly. Maybe 1 step one week, then the next step the next week. Slowly progress.

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    Have more confidence to yourself.. you can start it with approaching girls every two days..

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    Default Re: How To Get Over Shyness

    i know this isnt the correct place to put this post but i am technically stupid and have n idea how to create my own thread.... can someone please help me!


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