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    jm825 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    Hey guys im 5'6 and i have noticed that when I've approached women lately usually i can get a good conversation going but many times the issue of my height comes up. When i go to ask for the number i will get a response like "oh well you're kind of short" or " i usually go for guys who are taller". Any advise on how to get around this

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    I'm not sure if this would be plain honesty or a shit test. Try experimenting with these responses:

    To 'oh well you're kind of short' or similar:
    -'well you're kind of tall'
    -'(laugh) yeah, I am'
    -'That doesn't mean we can't go on a date'

    To 'I usually go for guys who are taller' or similar:

    -'But not this time'
    -'I usually go for girls that are shorter'
    -'That doesn't mean we can't go on a date'

    Try them all a couple of times. If they don't work, women are probably being honest with you and you should hit on short women (they can still be beautiful, I love short women).

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    As a short guy myself, it really depends on how it's said.

    If they say it in a sort joking way, just shrug it off or make a joke about it. Show that your height doesn't bother you and it doesn't bother them. You need to throw out that you're confident.

    I've got a few that seem to work out alright depending on the situation;
    Crack a joke about going through high school, doesn't matter what is said you've heard it all before and it doesn't bother you.
    Crack a joke about your height being short, just like your attention span, then feign leaving or temporarily talk to someone else in the group.

    Alternatively you could just completely ignore the comment like it never even happened which also can be quite effective.

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    Heard a guy the other day say, " we are same height laying down "...

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    Roland, that's an awesome line. I'm going to use that one if I ever get that kind of resistance. I'm 5'6", but I don't date anyone much taller than me for my own personal preference.
    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    Nice. Thanks for the responses guys. Good stuff I'll try them out.

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    Default Re: Short guy needs help keeping attraction going?

    I'm 5'7", and my friends and coworkers give me the most hell. It's probably good that I haven't had anything like that said to me.
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