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    ToxicMan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    What's up everybody! Here's my situation.

    About 9 months ago I met this chic at school. I didn't realize it at first, but as our relationship grew stronger, I felt that she was coming on to me. For example, we went out to a party (after knowing each other for about 2 months) and were almost inseparable the entire night dancing and what not. During this time I realized that I was growing more and more attracted to her. However, she didn't have a phone for the first 5 months I knew her, so I really didn't talk to her much outside of class.

    (Fastforward to about 3 months a go when she gets a phone.)
    I began texting her, opening up to her and flirting, but she wouldnt ever play along or flirt back. So one day I decided to ask her what her thought process of me was... she said "well I like you a little and youre growing on me, which is a good thing" I responded "well i was just wondering because I like you more than a little." Then she asked "how much?" and I responded, "I like you a lot more than a little"
    (fastforward to about 1 month a go)
    So about a month and a half went by without me really changing anything in our relationship until one day, I decided to text her telling her how beautiful she was and sh1t, and she texted me saying "can I ask you something? how much do you like me?" I decided I needed to settle whatever we had once and for all. I told her I liked her a lot, but I felt that these feelings weren't mutual." She responded:"Well you're on the right track. I know this is cliche, but I only see you as a friend and that's about it, I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings.

    So after she pinned me with the 'Friend' tag, I began to just accept the truth. But this wasn't as easy as I thought. We would go to the mall, and to movie nights at friends houses and other places. I would always hold hands w/ her and at the movie nights I would lay on the couch with her in my arms. I would always get the temptation to kiss her, but that "Just Friends" text would always make me reconsider.

    (Fast forward to one week ago)
    So about a week ago we went swimming with two other friends. I wasnt really trying to make any moves on her. I was almost ignoring her, but not in a rude way. At the pool she seemed to be flirting with me, hitting me and rubbing me on my ears and chest, but I forced myself not to flirt back. After the pool, we went to a friends house and sat in the dark watching a movie. I went and sat next to her. About 5 minutes in, she started play hitting and poking me. When she grabbed my chest, I grabbed her right tit. Then I looked at her and she grinned. We pulled the covers up so our friends couldnt see what we were doing. She grabbed my d1ck from outside of my shorts and I tried to finger her, but she had on some really tight shorts with a swimsuit under it. So I just rubbed her from through her shorts and felt on her tits. I even went under her bikini and felt the bare nipple. We fondled with each other for about 30 minutes, then we just watched the movie, her hand on my d1ck the entire time.

    Ok now that I explained my situation, tell me, do you guys think she is over that "Just Friends" thing, and I might have a chance with her? If so, which steps should I take to make her mine?

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    Default Re: Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    She's grabbing at your member and allowing you access to herself...

    Man up, ask her out. At worst case she'll say no but from her actions that seems very unlikely. Don't do it via txt, speak to her in person. Thats probably what let you down last time.

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    ToxicMan is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    Ok cool. I'll just take a chance and see where things go from there. We're pretty close and she knows how I feel. Even if she says no, I doubt we'll lose the relationship we have. I just didn't wanna seem desperate.

    Thanks man.

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    Default Re: Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    Joke thread? cmon man, obviously this chick wants your manhood. The reason she feels that attraction is because you gave up on pursuing her.

    She became the pursuer, and you became the prize.

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    Default Re: Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    I agree with pwonager. You were telling her all about your feelings and chasing her hard. Then when you stopped, she became more attracted to you.
    Being chased is so much fun. I feel like I'm the shit.

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    Default Re: Need help!!! Am I REALLY stuck in the friendzone?

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Joke thread? cmon man, obviously this chick wants your manhood. The reason she feels that attraction is because you gave up on pursuing her.

    She became the pursuer, and you became the prize.
    I thought the same thing as Pwonage.

    She originally liked you because you made her feel good about herself and gave her validation. You were to into her in the beginning and that gave her certainty, if a women has certainty than she loses attraction. You gotta keep her guessing

    Then suddenly you went alpha and took it away. Don't give it back until you guys are in a deep relationship btw. Until then do what you did before she fondled your manhood. You got to be willing to walk away and give the sense that you will.

    This is the reason that I find the friendzone to be the best way into a womens pants. The Take Away is the hail mary into the girls heart. Keep it up she dug it, dont make her feel awkward about what happened and assume your good enough.

    Good Luck and tell us how it goes.
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