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    Default Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    At lunch today I got our hostess' #. Tall Blonde HB8. She was limping so I opened about her limp, I told her about a funny camping story, and we chatted for a few minutes. So she tells me she has a BF and I gave her the "Oh I bet he's awesome and does sweet things etc" routine and it seemed to work. She started to say no its not like that and so on but stopped short. She gave me her # anyways and I joked that it better not be her BFs but how do I go about this? I'm not crazy about going after girls who arent available but I dont like to give up on a sale so easily either.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    There's nothing wrong being a man of standards. Even if it's not about standards, the energy input/output in these types of situations usually aren't worth the hassle. My suggestion would be that you can always make her a friend. And I mean for real, not pretend. Make her a buddy. A lot of men seriously underestimate the power of having genuine, attractive female friends. They usually introduce you to their friends and sometimes may even be hotter than the one you originally wanted. They even make cold approaches ALOT warmer.

    What happens down the line is that when her and her bf finally do break up, guess who's been there and waiting for her while dating her friends along the way?

    ........Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    I've heard of boyfriend destroyers, but what does the routine actually consist of? Making the bf look like a nice guy?

    Some info would be nice, thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    BFDestroyers are intended to not just make him look like a nice guy, but an AFC. Saying that he brings her flowers and writes poems. Basic chivalry which women love the idea. Then just let her bash her own bf. But while she is bashing him you want to try and interpret everything she says he does into an AFC trait. Like "maybe he does that because hes afraid to show how he's afraid to lose you." You can also add in the idea that you would make a terrible bf, but be careful.....some women are very gullible and will take YOUR advice on not dating YOU if not done correctly lol. Make sure there is alot of humor when doing this.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    BFDestroyers are intended to not just make him look like a nice guy, but an AFC. Saying that he brings her flowers and writes poems. Basic chivalry which women love the idea. Then just let her bash her own bf. But while she is bashing him you want to try and interpret everything she says he does into an AFC trait. Like "maybe he does that because hes afraid to show how he's afraid to lose you." You can also add in the idea that you would make a terrible bf, but be careful.....some women are very gullible and will take YOUR advice on not dating YOU if not done correctly lol. Make sure there is alot of humor when doing this.
    Thanks BatMan, you always deliver.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    Good call Batman. So I texted her a few hours later as I wanted to strike while the iron was relatively hot.

    Me: Hey next time you go camping try not to actually touch the fire

    No response. Water off a ducks back. I dont plan on reaching out any further unless there is a better angle to take.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    Callback humor is always great. If she doesn't respond in a day or two then you may need to try something else. A good way to increase your chances of a response from a distant woman is to create intrigue. Leave open threads so that she can ask you questions. A classic I used to use alot was "Omg are you serious."

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    Touche sir, touche. I like the open ended idea. Hopefully I'll have an update by weeks end.

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    What would the follow up be if/when she replies to an open ender?

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    Default Re: Picked up Hostess- Need advice

    I like the previous post where you befriend her. Put her in your friend zone. The power of having an attractive friend at your side should not be overlooked! Heck two is better! By becoming friends with her you will be opening new doors. Attractive women make excellent wings. It puts attention on you. Guys will wonder why she's with you, and girls will wonder what's so special, he must be very interesting. In a way she's your bait. Good luck, and positive vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.


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