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    Grizzle is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Cute Girl at bank - advice

    Cute young lady at bank, always flirtatious, talk about things beyond normal banking stuff on the occasion that I am in the bank and she is working. Told me where she works at a second job (much less formal setting) and do not have her number. Do I show up at her 2nd work (as she mentioned it a few times) and then give her the whole shibang or what? I'd like to take this girl out and get to know her. I also know that she has just come out of a LTR, and may not be looking for something too serious. Any thing helps. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Girl at bank...

    Sounds like you might creep her out. Idk man maybe you should just talk to her at the bank, and ask her for her number.

    I seriously don't know the right answer here, so take my opinion with a grain of salt.

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    Default Re: Girl at bank...

    Well her other job is a waitress at a bar, so I don't think showing up to grab a drink and chat her up would be creeping her out. She dropped it suggestively a few times about when she works and where...so thats where I got the idea.

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    Default Re: Girl at bank...

    Quote Originally Posted by Grizzle View Post
    Well her other job is a waitress at a bar, so I don't think showing up to grab a drink and chat her up would be creeping her out. She dropped it suggestively a few times about when she works and where...so thats where I got the idea.
    Then go for it, just say you were passing by and you needed a drink.

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    FauxPas here. Grizzle It does sound like she's interested, but you need to take the upper hand. I agree with pwonager it could creep her out if you show up at her second job. However, if you do stop by, make sure it's In And Out, And Nobody Get's Hurt! At most 1 drink, and I wouldn't finish it. You're just there to say 'hi', and your on your way to whatever, make your visit short. Maybe say you just wanted to see what kind of a place would hire her! Tell her you always enjoy talking to her but there never seems to be enough time . "Hey I know I'll call you, what's your number? Here, why don't you just enter it for me!" This whole thing can most likely be fine tuned, it's just a suggestion to get you in the mind set, get you into your own game! Keep us posted. Good luck, and good vibes. Ciao, FauxPas.

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    If you show up at the other job please BRING SOMEONE WITH YOU. If not then you will seem creepy.

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    I wouldn't go to her other job, I think we can all agree it's gotta creepy side to it. Unless of course she invites u a certain time.
    I know where ur coming from though, I've always had a thing for banker firls a.d like to chat with them and flirt.
    I'd be cool and play your 'lucky draw' here. Next time if you mite see her at the bank, ask her out.. maybe she gets off soon after and u don't even need to go there, just go do something.
    Or, just be social and flirty and if she brings up her other job, say hey me and my friends are going out 'such and such time' and is that a cool nite to go there? If u are out with friends- so instead of asking when she works or showing up u ask more casually about the place itself man.
    Then, if she's interested she mite invite u there, or say she'll be wherever.. u know wat I mean kinda work on chance, then go a little direct if u want.
    Hope that's not clouded, just an idea bro.

    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    I'm like the 3rd person in this thread that is in the Seattle area, wow.

    anyways you could go to the bank and ask for a recommendation of a good bar to hit up on you "weekly bar hoping night" then she will probably mention her work and you might even get to invite her along to this instantaneous event that you just pulled out of your butt.

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    I was actually in the same boat a while back except she worked at a coffee shop. The girl also mentioned her secondary place of employment a few times so one of the times when she brought it up I just asked her if she was suggesting I come by. She said she wouldn't have mentioned where she worked if she didn't want me to come so a few days later I stopped by ordered a coffee and when she gave me the coffee I said "Put your number on the cup and we'll get a drink after I get off of work in a couple of days." We went out a couple of times, I got to know bank girls, apparently they get hit on a lot so its not too big a deal to ask for her number at the bank either.

    We are still friends and she actually ended up marrying a guy who asked her out at the bank.

    That was a long way of saying if you are comfortable with talking you can ask her why she keeps mentioning her place of work. I also like the option of asking her where she would suggest to go get a drink. If she says "well I work at BarXYZ..." its a clear ioi.

    I agree that showing up un announced to the bar by yourself is a bad idea, but if you happen to be there with friends it can work out ok.

    Good luck and while its sometimes difficult to get a read on girls when they are at work and have to be friendly it sounds like she would be receptive to an advance.

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    Default Re: Cute Girl at bank - advice

    I meant that the SECOND job was at a coffee shop. First was at the bank.


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