Re: Just To much - I am overdoing evertyhing
Everyone's previous comments are all useful! As a new student myself, I'd say negging is art. Tread that fine line of getting her to drop her shield or her self-value, while at the same time looking like a good guy for still accepting her for whatever flaw she has that you pointed out.
But really, all of us new trainees are in the same boat! You just gotta go for it man. Explore what aspects of the game work best with who you are. The only way to do that is put what you study to use. Don't let the Venusian arts change you at the core, it's a lot easier if you start out working to destroy your sticking points.
Before you go out, be prepared:
-Say things to yourself like, "When a woman enters my world, I'll make it the best thing that has ever happened to her."
-Remember that you don't NEED anything from a woman, you just want to share a good time with her.
-Have routines off hand, openers, interesting statements, etc.
-Remain the person who everyone else is observing.
-BE DOMINANT IN YOUR ENVIRONMENT
These are a few things that helped me. Hope they can help you a little bit as well. Best of luck.